"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Critical mass of lays

everywomanshero

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As I am about to walk out the door to go get laid (LOL), something I've thought about from time to time is what I call the critical mass of lays.

This is where you no longer feel very much validation from giving some new chick a lay. She tells you that you're a sex god and it was amazing and it's different with you but since all chicks say that it's really not an ego boost anymore. It's like telling a model she's hot. The point where you could care less if some chick gets layd by you or not, and you'd just assume bang the same chicks over and over than be bothered
to hunt new ones as long as they don't give you any crap. Banging chics is
just such a normal part of life, and you think about it as like having to eat or
go to the facilities. It's just something that's there, but it really is less important than how you feel and other factors. The point where jealousy really is completely gone and not just with chicks you aren't that interested in, but with any chick. The point where any single chick even ones you've been with for months could take a hike or stay, but the ones u really care to have around about always stay because you are the guy who can get away with feeling this way.

FOr me this point took til around the 50th lay. It also took a variety of different kinds of chicks and PU in different venues. For example, if they are ALL internet chicks I don't think I'd ever reached that point.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Ace of Flames

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Its just like anything else. Get a new car. Hell yea, its awesome at first. You feel so great when you drive around in it, you show it off to friends, you take good care of it. Then, the newness wears off. You care less about how it looks, you don't bother even talking about it anymore. Its just another thing in your life that you have to use to get from point A to point B. And even deeper: After you've had a few cars in your life, then going to buy a new car isn't all that amazing. You really only do it based on need, like your old car doesn't run, or you need a bigger car for more passengers, whatever. You don't get all the shiny extra options that no one really needs. Its just a car! No biggie.

The same applies to women. Spend enough time around them, fvck them enough times, and that whole 'sacred' quality about them will disappear. They aren't these exquisite creatures that rival the Holy Grail. They're just chicks. Just people. Sex is just part of the deal, not some ultimate goal. The assumptions and everything you thought you knew will be straightened out. And that's it.

So, what do we get out of this thread? Don't worship women or pvssy or anything else. You only think so highly of it because you haven't messed around with it much. Get more experience and it'll all come into perspective.
 

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Something to shoot for

I'm not sure what to read into this. Is this something I should hope to attain someday? To not care?
 
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