"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Crips. Bloods.

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Yo yo, i was at da gas station and diz fo yr old rolled up on meh and ma cuz on his big wheel thinkin he own sum shiiii. Aye was thinkin, wut diz n*gga think he be doin rollin up on a big wheel in MA HOOD!!? So diz lil n*gga say hi. Datz when i almost lost it, i was bout to rip a clip n diz wanna b banga. Mah homie sed hi back, bein a lil b*tch n shii. Den dat f*ckin n*gga rolled out like he just scored a pound o yayo cuz. I watched dat foo leave n had to hold mah self bak so i didnt f*ck him up. Den he did it, he startd ridin wit out n e hands, throen dem up in da air and datz wen AYE LOSTED IT CUZ! Aye popped dat lil n*gga fo tryna claim sum gangsta shiii. Den i cripp walkeded all da way home n smoked me a bliizzy! FO SHOW!!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

Sadly, I've actually seen people crip-walk their way home.
 
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DJDamage

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Originally posted by oakraiderz2
Yo yo, i was at da gas station and diz fo yr old rolled up on meh and ma cuz on his big wheel thinkin he own sum shiiii. Aye was thinkin, wut diz n*gga think he be doin rollin up on a big wheel in MA HOOD!!? So diz lil n*gga say hi. Datz when i almost lost it, i was bout to rip a clip n diz wanna b banga. Mah homie sed hi back, bein a lil b*tch n shii. Den dat f*ckin n*gga rolled out like he just scored a pound o yayo cuz. I watched dat foo leave n had to hold mah self bak so i didnt f*ck him up. Den he did it, he startd ridin wit out n e hands, throen dem up in da air and datz wen AYE LOSTED IT CUZ! Aye popped dat lil n*gga fo tryna claim sum gangsta shiii. Den i cripp walkeded all da way home n smoked me a bliizzy! FO SHOW!!
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LMAO, this was classic just like this thread.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?threadid=64355&highlight
 
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I'm not trying to look cool or anything... anyone in the game will know what I'm talking about. As far as little kids in gangs, I've seen some REAL young kids, we're talking 5, 7 years old, set tripping REAL hard... and they weren't playing. Alot of the animosity I'm facing in these replies would simply not be tolerated if you were actually saying these things to a gang member...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
I'm not trying to look cool or anything... anyone in the game will know what I'm talking about. As far as little kids in gangs, I've seen some REAL young kids, we're talking 5, 7 years old, set tripping REAL hard... and they weren't playing. Alot of the animosity I'm facing in these replies would simply not be tolerated if you were actually saying these things to a gang member...
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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Alot of the animosity I'm facing in these replies would simply not be tolerated if you were actually saying these things to a gang member...
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It's a good thing they can't read then! :)
 
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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
Alot of the animosity I'm facing in these replies would simply not be tolerated if you were actually saying these things to a gang member...
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Sorry, but I wouldn't waste my breath knowingly talking to a gang member. They're scum.


Scum - "Slang. One, such as a person or an element of society, that is regarded as despicable or worthless."

Worthless - "Lacking worth; of no use or value.
Low; despicable. "

Despicable - "Deserving of contempt or scorn; vile."

Contempt - "The feeling or attitude of regarding someone or something as inferior, base, or worthless; scorn."

http://dictionary.reference.com
 
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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
I'm not trying to look cool or anything... anyone in the game will know what I'm talking about. As far as little kids in gangs, I've seen some REAL young kids, we're talking 5, 7 years old, set tripping REAL hard... and they weren't playing. Alot of the animosity I'm facing in these replies would simply not be tolerated if you were actually saying these things to a gang member...
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Do they fight over petty inane objects and thoughts also?

EDIT: Feel free to switch fight with kill, which ever you prefer...;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by penkitten
real men dont sell illegal substances at the 7eleven
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True that...real men sell 'em at Denny's.

Kidding, kidding...

imnotacrook...the message these guys are trying to send you here is that they have no love for gang bangers. Unfortunately, your pals chose a life that is only condoned by others who have chosen that lifestyle. As someone who has some friends who run with Hell's Angels I know that there are often some redeeming qualities in even people who do stupid things. Selling drugs, acting like a thug and committing crime is, well, stupid. Hanging out with people while they are actively doing any of those things is pretty stupid, too.

Remember...you aren't going to be "DJ-ing" any chicks if you are busy guarding your hind end from some big burly lifer looking to play hide the salami with you in prison.

Smarten up, dude...you'll get much further in life if you invest your time more wisely than you quite apparently are.
 
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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
I'm not trying to look cool or anything... anyone in the game will know what I'm talking about. As far as little kids in gangs, I've seen some REAL young kids, we're talking 5, 7 years old, set tripping REAL hard... and they weren't playing. Alot of the animosity I'm facing in these replies would simply not be tolerated if you were actually saying these things to a gang member...
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I hear you...
If u aint in the game, don't be hatin

aight, u see u don't want to be messin with these nig's, these nig's are strong muthers and they got connections...

If they really wanted to... THey could just make you dissapear like that... you won't be on the news... you would just be missing..

All your ip address's are easily obtainable, and don't think some of these nig's can't reach out for you.
 
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Originally posted by bbestar
Im hear you...
If u aint in the game, don't be hatin

aight, u see u don't want to be messin with these nig's, these nig's are strong muthers and they got connections...

If they really wanted to... THey could just make you dissapear like that... you won't be on the news... you would just be missing..

All your ip address's are easily obtainable, and don't think some of these nig's can't reach for you.
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Luckily its not THAT big of a deal. Can you tell me something, if youre a gangstaaaa why is is cool to get mad over mundane sh*t, such as popsicles, blunt wraps, color of shoe laces etc?
 
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all drugs should be decriminalized. My best friend from way back joined the crips in high school, now he's in the army, i guess he registeres as a real person now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by Iamnotacrook
I'm not trying to look cool or anything... anyone in the game will know what I'm talking about. As far as little kids in gangs, I've seen some REAL young kids, we're talking 5, 7 years old, set tripping REAL hard... and they weren't playing. Alot of the animosity I'm facing in these replies would simply not be tolerated if you were actually saying these things to a gang member...
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Yeah but you're not. So it doesn't matter.
 
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Originally posted by SELF-MASTERY
all drugs should be decriminalized. My best friend from way back joined the crips in high school, now he's in the army, i guess he registeres as a real person now.
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No, drugs shouldn't be decriminalized...addiction should just be treated as a disease rather than a defect in character. If the government spent more money on intensive rehab programs instead of prisons it might just help the situation some.

I've also seen what addiction does to someone. Making drugs legal would make them more available to kids that might not otherwise be able to get the particularly nasty stuff like crack, heroin and methamphetamines.

Treat addiction properly...that will help.
 
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Originally posted by bbestar
I hear you...
If u aint in the game, don't be hatin

aight, u see u don't want to be messin with these nig's, these nig's are strong muthers and they got connections...

If they really wanted to... THey could just make you dissapear like that... you won't be on the news... you would just be missing..

All your ip address's are easily obtainable, and don't think some of these nig's can't reach out for you.
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lol

street gangs aren't the mafia mate.
 
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Originally posted by bbestar
I hear you...
If u aint in the game, don't be hatin

aight, u see u don't want to be messin with these nig's, these nig's are strong muthers and they got connections...

If they really wanted to... THey could just make you dissapear like that... you won't be on the news... you would just be missing..

All your ip address's are easily obtainable, and don't think some of these nig's can't reach out for you.
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Well, these "nigs" are going to get blown six ways to China if they "reach out for me", but they won't need to worry about it, because they can't and won't. Capiche?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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