"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Creepy Toronto PUA event scrapped/publicly mocked

TheCWord

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This is how some of you guys who come here looking for "PUA" tactics are perceived by the rest of the world.

http://www.vice.com/en_ca/read/a-swarm-of-pick-up-artists-tried-to-invade-torontos-eaton-centre

I am glad SoSuave celebrates self-improvement and makes attracting women merely a pleasant side effect of what happens when you become a better man...

But every once in a while you get someone posting on here who doesn't get what this site is about and they're looking for the newest way to trick a girl into liking him. To them, I ask that they consider what it means that men like them aren't allowed in a big public space like Toronto's Eaton Centre mall.

That's one small step away from a sex offender.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I didn't click on the link, however. :rolleyes: Men trying to get a nut in one of the most misandrist feminist capitals of the world. The birthplace of slutwalk for crying out loud and a whole other slew of foul moustached fem-centric clubs.

Don't be too hard on them OP, and don't use shaming words like "creepy" and "sex offender". You sound like a chick or a mangina lapdog. Get the sand out of your vagina you have over PUA. I've noticed you have in this and past posts a real gripe against game. This isn't puahate.com.
 

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( . )( . ) said:
:rolleyes: Men trying to get a nut in one of the most misandrist feminist capitals of the world. The birthplace of slutwalk for crying out loud and a whole other slew of foul moustached fem-centric clubs.

Don't be too hard on them OP, and don't use shaming words like "creepy" and "sex offender". You sound like a chick or a mangina lapdog. Get the sand out of your vagina you have over PUA. I've noticed you have in this and past posts a real gripe against game. This isn't puahate.com.
I actually agree with A-Cup for once....

These guys are actually taking action besides just sitting behind a keyboard yapping away. We could take a page from them on here on utilizing the time to practice what we preach

I myself will be mass approaching this weekend!!!



IN B4 A-CUP SAYS THEY'RE ALL 40 AND WASHED UP

:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:



:cheer:


:woo:
 

JoeMarron

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Have to agree with t!ts on this one. Yes sosuave celebrates self improvement but The DJ Bible is full of "PUA" tactics. Some PUA tactics are gimmicky nonsense while others are merely how a proper man should behave with a woman. On the other hand I bet there were some socially retarded dudes there that were genuinely creepy. Oh well, they have to start somewhere.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Everyone in PUA should realize that Toronto is ground zero feminist territory. Instead save up 3 grand and take a flight to Thailand.
 

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There are two words that come to mind after reading the link above.

The second one is feminism; the first one beings with the f and ends with "uck." Get my drift? ;)
 

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Solomon said:
These guys are actually taking action besides just sitting behind a keyboard yapping away. We could take a page from them on here on utilizing the time to practice what we preach
I dont subscribe to the whole "doing something, ANYTHING, is better than nothing". A lot of the times its very possible to be doing something negative that will actually hinder your growth.

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I didn't click on the link, however...Don't be too hard on them OP, and don't use shaming words like "creepy" and "sex offender". You sound like a chick or a mangina lapdog. Get the sand out of your vagina you have over PUA. I've noticed you have in this and past posts a real gripe against game. This isn't puahate.com.
Bolded above sorta reminds me of "well hey I dont xyz BUT..." The article that OP linked is definitely written by some incompetent broad. Im guessing she finds men approaching women "creepy" because shes ugly and it never happens to her. THAT BEING SAID.....these dudes are complete chumps and yes I will be hard on them. Sure, what they necessarily are doing isnt a terrible thing.....but "organizing a huge PUA fest" is not exactly what the ideal man does. The whole act of even going to the mall JUST TO MEET WOMEN is pathetic in my opinion. Theres enough opportunity to meet women in your everyday life.....its just having the balls to approach them. Going out of your way to meet them or "making it an event" puts them on the pedestal.
 
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