"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Creativity?

October

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Anyone have any tips on creativity and learning to be more creative? Not necessarily along the lines of painting or music or anything like that, but just in everyday life. Has anyone seen the movie "Airplane!"? That was a ****ing funny movie...every joke was completely random and unexpected, and it probably took incredible creativity to write something like that. Maybe what I need is more imagination...but I'm not sure where to start.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Originally posted by October
Anyone have any tips on creativity and learning to be more creative? Not necessarily along the lines of painting or music or anything like that, but just in everyday life. Has anyone seen the movie "Airplane!"? That was a ****ing funny movie...every joke was completely random and unexpected, and it probably took incredible creativity to write something like that. Maybe what I need is more imagination...but I'm not sure where to start.
just talk about stuff you see, and eventually you'll make a laughter !:D
 

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unplug the tv and trow it out the window.

next, find a nearest library adn get your self some funny books (no not comics). BOOKS FORCE YOU TO IMAGINE THINGS; the enviroment, the people, situations..... and there for you develop you imagination (i'm starting to do this, my brain turnd to mush in last couple of years...)
 

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humour comes in all forms, so try to develop your own kind of humour. creativity is a big part of humour. how to be creative, is just you working your brain at it. workout that grey matter.
 

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Creativity only comes from inspiration as far as I'm concerned.....find something that inspires you and use it for motivation in your daily life

P.S That is a GREAT Emerson quote.....it's quickly becoming my mantra
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by Evangenlion
humour comes in all forms,
as do many things in life
just like making a good conversation isnt always about telling stories about yourself :rolleyes:
 
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