"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Prodoge

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Do you guys have some ideas in terms of doing something creative/fun when one has time to spare ?

Looking for some not so common indeas here
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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glass blowing, rock climbing, hot yoga, wine tasting/wine culturing
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Home brewing craft beers is good fun and easy to get into. You can buy a kit for cheap and they don't take up much space. Try flavouring a lager with orange skin and coriander you'll be amazed at the results.
And because it's cheap to do and handmade by you they make great gifts.

I'm sure you can probably do the same thing with cider and low carb beers these days. Flavoured ciders r bloody expensive to buy so u might even save yourself a few bucks on dates. And looking at your setup would be a nice excuse to get her back to your place. Remember they want to f*** you just need to give them an excuse no matter how ridiculous to appease their ASD.
 

zekko

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Learn an instrument, paint, woodworking.
 

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Learn to play an instrument. I'm having a blast learning the electric guitar right now and I'm in mid 30s. Never too old to learn something new.
 

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Lol @zekko. We had the same idea at the same time man. :lol:
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ubercat

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I like Armante's idea. New world or not, every man should have a shed.
 
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