"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Creative occupation in free time

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Do you guys have some ideas in terms of doing something creative/fun when one has time to spare ?

Looking for some not so common indeas here
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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glass blowing, rock climbing, hot yoga, wine tasting/wine culturing
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Home brewing craft beers is good fun and easy to get into. You can buy a kit for cheap and they don't take up much space. Try flavouring a lager with orange skin and coriander you'll be amazed at the results.
And because it's cheap to do and handmade by you they make great gifts.

I'm sure you can probably do the same thing with cider and low carb beers these days. Flavoured ciders r bloody expensive to buy so u might even save yourself a few bucks on dates. And looking at your setup would be a nice excuse to get her back to your place. Remember they want to f*** you just need to give them an excuse no matter how ridiculous to appease their ASD.
 

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Learn an instrument, paint, woodworking.
 

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Learn to play an instrument. I'm having a blast learning the electric guitar right now and I'm in mid 30s. Never too old to learn something new.
 

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Lol @zekko. We had the same idea at the same time man. :lol:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ubercat

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I like Armante's idea. New world or not, every man should have a shed.
 
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