"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Creative ideas for asking for prom

Jumpman23

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Actually, I am going to be attending a Black and White Ball in two weeks, basically it is a Prom for Adult Folks. So have to ask this girl that I have been hanging out with. I guess I would like to be creative.

Any suggestions of what guys have done for their prom.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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War Against Betaism

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Go up to her and ask "Hey, would you like to go to prom with me?"

lol I have a friend that made his own fortune cookie that said will you go to prom with me inside it. This one person took the girl's phone, changed his name to will you go to prom with me, gave it back and called her. What I did was I called the girl and said "I have something special for you, come to my house and I'll show you." It was the guest permission slip for prom.
 

ARrocket

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War Against Betaism said:
Go up to her and ask "Hey, would you like to go to prom with me?"

lol I have a friend that made his own fortune cookie that said will you go to prom with me inside it. This one person took the girl's phone, changed his name to will you go to prom with me, gave it back and called her. What I did was I called the girl and said "I have something special for you, come to my house and I'll show you." It was the guest permission slip for prom.
haha that second one is awesome :D

But don't feel like you need to do something special....oftentimes, it can be overkill.
 
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