Creating LOOSE ENDS with girls.. And making them bring standards down

[toot86]

This is a question I have CAN we as GOOD djs create loose ends with girls like sexually.. Like after we talk to them and make them feel good.. and SHOW THEM there is sexy guys out there with attitude ..and then REJECT THEM or not get there # ..


Will they feel the need to act on the feeling you left .. of horneniess or attraction..

and lower there standards or not be soo dificult for the other guy that trys to seduce her.. Because she feels she missed out on you and wants some really bad!!

When I say some.. I mean AFFECTION/LOVE OR SEX



I hope you guys understood what I say its a wierd question..but a very interesting one


EXAMPLE..

I seduced this girl at a party and she was really FINE.. and did everything right .. but the thing is when she told me she lived in another state I said forget it .. and put my (RUNAWAY MODE ) on

and left or just said i needed to go the BR..

i had that girl soo hot i frenched her b4 and kino with deep conversation.. but then after she said she lived in another state I left.. NOt right away but you know what i mean.. I think she got the idea that I DID not want to presu it


so after a while I see her really getting freaky with this UGLY black dude.. not even muscular or Tyrese,Michael jordan like..

it was a nappy Black guy ..

(NO OFFENSE TO AFRICAN AMERICANS)

but the guy didint even try hard to seduce he was not a player black guy he was a AFC black guy that only goes to partys to grind..

yet she was all over him...

It took me soo long to get one dance from her and she gives it up to him in less then a minute!!!

 

[SamePendo]

Originally posted by toot86
I hope you guys understood what I say its a wierd question..but a very interesting one..

I didnt, could you please explain again?

 

[toot86]

ok

Here is a "COOL GUY SUMMARY "

Just for you samependo


Do we make girls lower there standars or become more open to AFCS when we "when" we do a good job as a Dj.. seduce them .. make them feel attraction to you.. or hot for you....

then..
,,

REJECT THEM in someway or just dont get the #

will this sometimes..

make a girl feel .. like she lost something GOOD

that she will feel the need to LOWER HER STANDARDS

OR

Give A dumasz AFC no problems getting into her panties..

or

Just be MOre slutty with guys..




because she MET a DJ and then LOST him...



(DO WE MAKE IT EASY FOR AFCs After we Demostrated are DJ abilitys and dont presue it with a certain girl.. for afcs hitting on that girl..

 

[Atratus]

Some girls will pounce an afc just to make you jealous. They dig you in fact, and by their logic, that means they have to suck up to a lower lifeform (nowadays, there are no longer evil dragons and wizards in castles, so they settle for jerks and afc's) to be with you.

These girls will NOT lower their standards, they will raise their standards. They will want YOU, to be their afc. Yet, at the same time, it is unutterable to what deep ends they will sink themselves, hoping for you to be their gay knight in shining armor.

Dj's have pride and confidence, and the DJ bible to safeguard them from this ****. They know who and when to next, to keep in mind she's not the only woman on the planet, etc.

Above all, they're often just looking to get laid.

Hence, don't worry about leaving loose ends.
Do and you will weave the spider's web around you. In other words, you'll marry. Don't, and in the worst case, she'll turn out to be a slut (or a stalker), in which case it might only become more complicated to lay someone you didn't want in the first place.

And maybe that's the truth!

 

[SamePendo]

Yes, if you do it well, and add some cruelness to the formula, it does make her lower her standards.
Oh, and she must have some confidence issues (which all women have haha).

But I dont think there is any need to do that.

 

[toot86]

the thing

I just dont want to leave girls hot and horney and let some dorky AFC reap in the rewards "sex"

because of my seduction and rejection or not closing..


I dont want to dj

Jennifer and then just not be able to close her..

Jennifer thinks I dont like her but she still feels horney and excited because of my djing..


Jennifer leaves feeling she lost something good.

and she sees DORKY Dan will she somewhat feel the need to give it up to dan more easier if he have wittly tries to hit on her..


because of the impression I left b4 hand... and losing me..?

 

[Atratus]

Well toot86, as far as i can see, there's not too much you can do about it. I'm thinking that when you're DJ around chick before you've figured out what you want with her, and if it turns out you let her go, then there's not much you can do to keep her in place. That possibility lies only within her own hands, and like samependo says, girls can be very insecure. Don't always trust their hands.

If you think it wont adversely affect the Interest Level you want her to have, you could lay down the DJ a less thickly in the first place. Sometimes it's a risky move maybe, but sometimes i'm sure you can forget all about being DJ without lowering anyone's IL. Well, unless maybe you never were a DJ in the first place.


One more thing i can think of that might help is Mystery. Especially if you're showing value, or being a challenge and using social proof and stuff, sarging other HB's she's standing next to, etc. Try to let her do the talking, and when you're talking about yourself keep it short and simple.

If you do it the way i think is right - which is to say that the way you present yourself is not entirely dry and boring, but rather suggestive that you're holding back, even that you're talking to her merely because you're searching for something - then that means that she'll be interested in getting to know you better (=figure out how to get you drooling horny over her). Hopefully she'll ask all kinds of prying questions and come up with all kinds of excuses to be around you and get you to 'open up'.

Here's the catch:

if her interest becomes too obvious, she risks being THRICE rejected and coming off as a slut:

First because you were a mystery challenge, and not actively pursuing her ass.

Second because you didn't close.

Third because you still don't give a **** even after she takes it up with Mr. AFC.

Allright maybe you do give a ****, but that's up to you. If you're really not interested in her at all, then you won't and she'll be thrice rejected instead of twice. Maybe she did get you a little jealous?

Anyhow, i hope this is helpful to you. Good luck with keeping all the cats away from ya toot86!