"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Creating intimacy?

AC/DC

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I have not had sex in almost 3 months.

I can game girls on the phone all day and night, but I fail to create intimacy in person. Twice in the last week, with two different F*CKIN GORGEOUS girls (will include pics later) we kicked it, had hella fun, and I didn't even get a kiss. I've been out of the loop a long time. I always get them laughing and feeling special and ****, but I fail in the long run.

I play the game like a champ, but I've kinda lost my groove for it. How can I create better intimacy and sexual tension?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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toddC

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AC I've been in that same thing too. With one girl that I just stopped hookin up with too. I gotta get back into the groove of things to :(
 
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