"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Creating intimacy?

AC/DC

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I have not had sex in almost 3 months.

I can game girls on the phone all day and night, but I fail to create intimacy in person. Twice in the last week, with two different F*CKIN GORGEOUS girls (will include pics later) we kicked it, had hella fun, and I didn't even get a kiss. I've been out of the loop a long time. I always get them laughing and feeling special and ****, but I fail in the long run.

I play the game like a champ, but I've kinda lost my groove for it. How can I create better intimacy and sexual tension?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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toddC

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AC I've been in that same thing too. With one girl that I just stopped hookin up with too. I gotta get back into the groove of things to :(
 
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