"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Creating Attraction?

LonelyGuy2k4

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I was looking at some of the tips on the home page as well as other posts that deal with attraction. However, I noticed that they usually imply that the girl is interested in you to begin with. Does anyone know some tips on how to create attraction or start attraction within a girl. Or is that not possible? If she doesn't like me then should I just stop right there? Im not sure what I should do. Thanks a lot.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by The_Shezzler
It can be possible to create attraction but...

IS IT WORTH YOUR TIME AND EFFORT?

Go find a girl that likes YOU from the offset - but that you like in return also.

Sarge on...
Of course he needs to be likeable y'know; but I whole heartedly agree with you. :up:
 

toddC

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yea like i would liek to know some articles how to creat attraction too :)
 

So pimp its scary

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Do you mean creating sexual attraction from a friend?? Because in that case it's usually just best to eliminate that possibility from your mind.

If you mean going from introduction where the IL is basically neutral and raising it from there? It's all in a state of mind when you get down to it. You have to understand that there are plenty of other woman, and to not get hung up on this one. You gotta be the one to test the girl to make sure that she suits YOUR needs, this way her needs will become secondary to yours... It's not about what to say, it comes down to the way you think and act.

And that's what you are here to learn I imagine...
 
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