"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Creating Attraction

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When you're playing the field with multiple girls, how does this sound to boost a girl's IL in you when she's emotionally invested in you?

You hooked up before, she likes you, and you show her all the attention in the world (but not too much) hang out, and joke around. This could last for a few weeks, then you cut all contact for a week or two, delay in answering messages etc. Act like you're not interested.

Would this get a girl's IL up?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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maybe, depends on the girl.
she might be more interested and chase you down, or she might just not talk to you ever again cause she thinks you don't care anymore.
 
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I would say doing so for up to a week should help increase her IL. I might suggest doing it every month to 6 weeks, but maybe for only 4-5 days. Interesting theory, I've never tried it.
 
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Wanna nail her? Show up somewhere where she is with a date, and be all over her $hit. This will drive her mad with lust.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I don;t think you need to "create attraction". I'm not doing any such thing and am happy with my results. I just talk like a normal person would and if they don't like that, then so long and the next one will. I just find women are randomly attracted, sometimes hot ones sometimes so-so ones. Hell sometimes I even talk to fat chicks just because they seem to have cool personalities (of course I don't sleep with them though, yuck, that would gross me out). The thing is how many chicks are you going to have time for between work, school, gf, whatever else is going on. Unless you're dedicating you life solely to the pursuit of women, I don't see how a guy would have time for more than 1 or 2 new chicks per week anyway.
 
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