Creating attraction without........

[FrankWank]

What are some ways to create attraction with women when your in the same room with them, without even speaking to them?? A wingman? Sense of aura?

 

[belividere]

could you possibly elaborate?

What are some ways to create attraction with women when your in the same room with them, without even speaking to them?? A wingman? Sense of aura?

What do you expect a wingman to do? Do you think that he could play up your social status as you sit there basking in your own glory? I just really dont get what the point of a wingman would be if you sat there quitely. I also dont know if understand what the hell an aura is and dismiss it as garbage. I personally have found that the best way to create attraction with a woman who is in the same room as you is to either talk to them or to start making out with them.

 

[FrankWank]

Aura could be:

The vibe an Alpha Male gives off, when he enters a room
Everyone knows him, and they go up and talk to him etc.... So there is noway you can dismiss it as garbage?
Maybe how he carries himself? Confident?

The wingman can actually raise your stock if he knows the chic? You may be tapping azz in no time?

 

[belividere]

If everyone knows you and you are the "alpha" male there is a reason for it. You aren't afraid to talk to anyone and people look up to you based on both your actions and your communications. If you are at a point where you have everyone who enters the room immediately realize your presence and feel the need to come up to you and initiate conversation than you should have no problem initiating conversation with whoever you are interested in.

This is something that I dont get around here. What the hell is an "alpha" male? And I dont play with wings but what you mentioned is what I eluded to about playing up social status. If you are making a wing lie about it though than you may as well knock out the competition of him and work solo on it. At least the odds of getting caught up in stupid **** is minimized for him in that case.

What I want to know though is really an example of what situation you expect to do this in. Also how you intend to act, what your target is, what your expectations are and what age range are we shooting for. I'm not trying to be an ass here but the more info you get and the better you express you idea the better the help with be.

 

[FrankWank]

Its a gym

Shes 27, and when i first met her in a meeting, she touched my leg as my friend was making a comment about me. He said "oh ..........is ........." She then touched my leg and said "you"

Everytime (3 times) i see her, its pretty casual between us. I'll catch her watching me off the mirror when im working out, or she'll look in my direction but no eye contact even if im the only one in the area. I'll try and make eye contact but she wont. When i walk by her, i ask her "how she's doing" she'll smile at me and make eye contact, then she'll keep doing what she is doing. My friend knows her and he talks to her every now and then. Im new to this gym.

There is another guy who wants her, but she has declared him as her friend which my friend told me, being he has 3 kids living home with mom at 31, just divorced. This guy has spit some salt on my game, because he likes her, and he knows im going to make a move. He'll call me player or playboy in her presense. Whatever else he said, i dont know

My friend is my wingman. He's known her for about 3 months. They have worked out together.He is going to when he can, take the salt off. He's not going to talk about how much $$ i make. He's not going to tell her lies about me (known him for 12 years) He's going to raise my stock, and tell her the truth and i'll see how she acts afterwards. We have at times both been eachothers wingman at the clubs and it works dam well!

The reason why i cant at this time, is because she is kinda avoiding me in a way. I do know alot of people in the gym, and they come up and talk to me, and she notices. Dont know if its the ignore game she's playing with me or not

 

[belividere]

Take your chance now or sit on your window of opprutunity. I wouldn't wait for your friend to come around and help you out unless he is chuck wollery. As for this other guy, trust me woman can smell the lies of a desperate douchebag from a mile away and any woman who knows her ass from a hole in the ground takes their messages as sad attempts at ****blocking. Run with it on your own for now and see where it takes you. You seem to be getting the buying signs so go in for the close. At the least it will let her know you interest while also giving you a real test to gauge hers. If she declines than at least you will have the piece of mind to move on and begin working multiple targets.

 

[belividere]

Frank,
I really didn't mean to come off as a d1ck either but I really think that the better the explanation of the situation the better the replies you'll recieve. I'm sure that several folks on here can relate to your situation and give you their own stories about what they did, both good and bad, when a full explanation is given. I'm sure that you will do fine for yourself though and wish you the best in doing so.

 

[FrankWank]

Reverse Smurfing??????

Check this out...
I was in the gym this morning and she was there training a client. The guy friend of hers was also there to see him mom who works there.
I was talking to her guy friend? with another guy. She comes up and i say "hey, whats going on"
She says...."oh i was here to talk to ...." and she walks off. Could'nt even respond to my acknowledge of her presence. Flat out gave me the cold shoulder. But she has this guy friend of hers like a puppet. Whenever she is there, he is close by

WTF?????????

 

[MindOverMatter]

Reverse Smurfing

lol, someone who remembers smurfing

 

[FrankWank]

what is reverse smurfing??

 

[FrankWank]

reverse smurfing?

someone elaborate