Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Creating an alter-ego to get more women: Johnny-B-Bad!

lynch1000s

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I know that girls like bad boys, so I decided to come up with the alter-ego: Johnny-B-Bad. Of course Johnny-B-Bad will be a bad boy, sociopathic, greased hair motorcycle riding, James Dean type. I got this idea from watching the movie youth in revolt, and I can tell it's the bad boys that girls want.

Now my question is this... Will my Johnny-B-Bad persona work out??? I mean girls also like the jockish type, but I certainly cannot become a Lebron James in the next week or so. So I decided I will start smoking cigarettes, buy a leather jacket, grease my hair, and see if the women start rolling in. Of course I will sign up for the Don Juan newsletter to fully hone my game. But is there anything else I should be doing...?

Any thoughts or opinions, or tips?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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SandHawk

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This attempt is stupid and pathetic. First of all, girls won't be attracted to your leather jacket or greasy hair. They will be attracted to your personality.

Yes, girls love bad boys, but they love bad boys because bad boys have character traits that are very attractive. Like the nonchalance, the "don't care" attitude, laid back, not being needy or clingy.

You can be a very nice guy(Not to be confused with "a nice guy" in the sene of an AFC) while still radiating out those traits.

Second of all, creating an alter-ego is massively self-destructing. You'll pick up girls with this "alter-ego", they might fall for him, and then when you get home, or tired of putting up an act, you fall back into your own personality, leaving them to wonder what happened to whomever they fell for, loose interest and dump you. The whole concept of being a DJ is improving yourself, not putting up an act!

Good luck getting lung cancer by smoking cigarettes. That stopped being attractive to girls once they hit 14.
 

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SandHawk said:
This attempt is stupid and pathetic. First of all, girls won't be attracted to your leather jacket or greasy hair. They will be attracted to your personality.

Yes, girls love bad boys, but they love bad boys because bad boys have character traits that are very attractive. Like the nonchalance, the "don't care" attitude, laid back, not being needy or clingy.

You can be a very nice guy(Not to be confused with "a nice guy" in the sene of an AFC) while still radiating out those traits.

Second of all, creating an alter-ego is massively self-destructing. You'll pick up girls with this "alter-ego", they might fall for him, and then when you get home, or tired of putting up an act, you fall back into your own personality, leaving them to wonder what happened to whomever they fell for, loose interest and dump you. The whole concept of being a DJ is improving yourself, not putting up an act!

Good luck getting lung cancer by smoking cigarettes. That stopped being attractive to girls once they hit 14.
So what are you trying to say...? That Johnny-B-Bad should really be Johnny-B-Good???
 

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reminds me of "bud bundy" from married with children who invented a pathetic alter ego "grand master B". was a mega fail, obviously
 

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It's not going to work. The self is always coming through, even if you're wearing a persona mask.I'm not even speculating, I speak from a position of experience.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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lynch1000s

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Acq said:
reminds me of "bud bundy" from married with children who invented a pathetic alter ego "grand master B". was a mega fail, obviously
But that was just a television show!
 

bish0p

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Heh, I just watched Youth in Revolt today and this reminds me of that movie.
 

CarlitosWay

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Heh I used to be a real quiet small guy.... Well fast forward 2 + years of training in a gym seriously and 40+ lbs of mass and just bettering myself in many aspects/socializing and confidence. Oh yeah I've just recently grew out my hair and started greasing it too (castor oil and coconut oil ha, helps its jet black and sleek also), I rarely drink/smoke. Yet I love everything from rock and rock/metal to rap/rnb. I've adopted the solid mind state of a man who will not be shaken. Hell I get called bad all the time, I'll get texts from woman right after taking them out or the next day saying "you're so bad/naughty/dirty" " you got me naked"

You know what ? I faked it until I made it I guess....and it's pretty much me now. Cause I can literally start convos with the young and old and have most of them flirting with me easily and hear the "you're handsome but probably trouble" comment all the time. It turns me on!! Hell in the bedroom I get wild as hell, I don't give a **** I'll slap a girls ass until it turns bamboon red...I'll bite it even.

I only associate myself with real men also, read about bad-assery, I do bad ass stuff and maybe I was always like this but I just never "unleashed" it........

I'm actually a lot happier now....
 

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You're the same guy who just created a thread bragging that you are, and I quote, a "major womanizer". If you are then why the need to create an alter ego in the first place...
 

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lynch1000s said:
So what are you trying to say...? That Johnny-B-Bad should really be Johnny-B-Good???
More like Johnny-B-Better.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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How's this for bad, I have a one o'clock lunch date, and haven't slept in 24 hours, and not going to sleep for another 24 hours.

It blows!
 

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That's gonna give you ED dude. You're gonna regret it.
 

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I'm doing something similar. I'm focusing more on the inner than the outer.

the key is to destroy all approval seeking behavior
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Cinamon

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Lynch, i use to have an alter-ego for when i went out of town/on holiday just to have some reckless fun. My only advise to you would be, if you are going to have an alter ego, make sure its one you can pull off, for people that know you already, expect some piss taking to come from them, and why dont you post a picture, and we can tell you what kind of alter ego will work for you.
 
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