"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Creating a holding pattern

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I am going to fly in the face of conventional wisdom and use several of my old numbers and emails for batting practice and the fundamentals.

What does this mean? Radical stuff like emailing girls I haven't talked to in a while and keeping in touch, occasionally calling and using NLP stuff.

Basically I can use my exes for practice of all this stuff and some of the new girls that flake on me as well.

Now yeah that ex I want to get back, I want to put her in a holding pattern as well. Basically that means occasionally contacting her, I mean every few weeks at the most, maybe once the month.

Just to be a bit wild, I'm going to email a girl that I broke up with in 2002. I have always wondered about what she is up to.

And the worst that can happen? She might have a husband and he gets pissed or some of these girls don't respond.

Big deal. I've gotten some practice out of em.

I want to write later about a unified theory of seduction I've been thinking about for some time.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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But guys keep in mind this will not at all be at the expense of meeting new women.

What I'm trying to do is create an abundance mindset in my mind. It is extremely helpful.

Nothing like seeing an email inbox full of girls you've FVCKED before.
 
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I can see what you are gettig at, but I wouldn't waste any time with the 'past'.

If you aren't with these girls anymore, I'm sure there is a pretty good reason. I'd be weiry of opening old wounds or feelings...
 
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I know what you are sayiing.

Good to start afresh, but i can' t help but want to revisit some of the past.
 
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