creating a girl-magnet lifestyle

[Shrub]

Hey guys,

I've just been reading DeepBlue's archived post "Meeting Miss Right" from back in 2002 and it got me thinking. While many girls can be picked-up in bars etc with good technique such as an Alpha attitude, ****y/funny and the like, I've always believed that to succeed mid to long term with the really amazing chicks, the ones who have everything going for them (including female charisma and ambition) we guys need to back these techniques up with an attractive lifestyle.
My question to you guys is, how do you think a DJ could build the kind of lifestyle that magnetically attracks such women? Obviously the things we do would have to be congruent with our personality and actually be things we are interested in outside seduction, but there are many things from volunteer work to art classes to overseas travel that are not only great for building an attractive life 'package', but for meeting women also.

Bascically I'm suggesting that by making our lives as interesting, powerful and influential as possible, we are creating a kind of 'giga-lifestyle' that would be extreemly attractive to an ambitious, charismatic HB10 (a rock-star effect, kind of). If we began living this powerful lifestyle, we would often be fufilling that old rule of 'always be cooler than the girl' before we had even opened our mouths. Our DJ techniques would be ten times more powerful, and we may even be considered HG10's (hot guy 10).

So what do you guys think? Any ideas on creating such a mega-lifestyle, or you think it's complete rubbish?
Shrub.

 

[Bible_Belt]

It could be as simple as cultivating the skills and hobbies that women like but men usually don't - dance, art, travel, cooking, yoga, etc.

 

[locarius]

I disagree... would you be interested in a girl that learned about football just to meet guys? I wouldn't.

Have your own hobbies, and be passionate about them. Women can sense that you are truly passionate about something, and I think that they find it attractive, even if it isn't fashion / yoga / soaps.

Be a passionate MAN and you will have a passionate woman at your side.

 

[Jukeboxhero]

I'm actually into art, dancing and a little bit of cooking. Most of the art and cooking I do at home but I do see some HB's in my dance class on occasion. Of course I would to travel, but I can't really afford to that often.

 

[jiza101]

Originally posted by Shrub
Hey guys,

I've just been reading DeepBlue's archived post "Meeting Miss Right" from back in 2002 and it got me thinking. While many girls can be picked-up in bars etc with good technique such as an Alpha attitude, ****y/funny and the like, I've always believed that to succeed mid to long term with the really amazing chicks, the ones who have everything going for them (including female charisma and ambition) we guys need to back these techniques up with an attractive lifestyle.
My question to you guys is, how do you think a DJ could build the kind of lifestyle that magnetically attracks such women? Obviously the things we do would have to be congruent with our personality and actually be things we are interested in outside seduction, but there are many things from volunteer work to art classes to overseas travel that are not only great for building an attractive life 'package', but for meeting women also.

Bascically I'm suggesting that by making our lives as interesting, powerful and influential as possible, we are creating a kind of 'giga-lifestyle' that would be extreemly attractive to an ambitious, charismatic HB10 (a rock-star effect, kind of). If we began living this powerful lifestyle, we would often be fufilling that old rule of 'always be cooler than the girl' before we had even opened our mouths. Our DJ techniques would be ten times more powerful, and we may even be considered HG10's (hot guy 10).

So what do you guys think? Any ideas on creating such a mega-lifestyle, or you think it's complete rubbish?
Shrub.

Just have things you like to do, if you like tennis, play a lot of it, if you like dancing, do a lot of it.. If you dont have many hobbies, go out and try new things you think might interest you

 

[catch]

having some class you mean;

i agree, i think if your living a fun lifestyle then women will be attracted to you anyway,

taking up hobbies, i like martial arts, and adventure sports like mountain biking, kiyacking, and absailing...
i also play piano and would like to play background music in a few back street bars! i like jazz so maybee i could learn some jazz piano and do a few auditions to get me into that lifestyle!

i think you should just do what you want to do, if you cant find a way to do it then you need to put some more effort into living the lifestyle you want to live!