Creating a friend (AFC) into a wing?

[dr0pxx]

Howdy everyobody

I live where there are not alot of people to sarge with.I have to turn a friend into a wing so I have someone to sarge with. I planned on doing this by having them read Mysteries E-book and do the missions. I know I would have 2 friends that would be interested.

What is the best way to approach this? If info is leaked within social circle by non committed friend then obvious social circumstances apply

I am sure alot of you have tried/though about this.

thx
dr0p

 

[mpimpin]

I've managed to do this with My best friend. I just told him lots of information myself and did some practice sarging. Some hypothetical situations. then i introduced him to sosuave. I also have a wingwoman who's one of my best friends. Thats a lot diffrent then changing an AFC into a DJ to be your wingman.

 

[92 GSR-4]

I think it's a great idea. I'm in the same situation..I have nobody to sarge with. My best friend is married...and my other 2 AFC friends think I'm pathetic for trying to improve myself with these websites.. so I am a loney DJ..in training

 

[drexler]

I try to give my afc friends advice but never refer to the community. Don't wan't them to think different of me, or think, oh no wonder he hooks up so often.

 

[rrrrr]

I was out at the bar with some friends and someone invited a guy i have never seen before. This guy was just all over the place, dancing with women, approaching women at the bar, and everything. I decided I'm going to hang out with this guy, he's awesome. I started talking to him and realized he was a homosexual. So that's why he was able to approach all these women. He had no fear whatsoever because it would be like me approaching a man at the bar. So I was thinking the best wingman would be a homosexual. I am going to try and meet up with him again, I guarantee I will meet women if I do. Of course it would be better to be able to walk up to women like he can, and actually conversate with them.

 

[92 GSR-4]

rrrrr,

nice name first off

Thats really interesting as a matter of fact. Careful though, I view it as a 2 edged sword:

1) The women you approach could be completely taken by your confidence as a straight guy hanging with a gay guy.

2) Your friends, family, and the women you approach might take it the wrong way

All in all... I think its a great idea to try. Not only that, the homosexual guy you are referring to probably has a TON of HB's to hook you up with... sounds like a decent setup!

 

[dr0pxx]

THanks for the input

92 GSR-4 I think I am going to ask one of them if they want to go out often JUST to get girls. Then perhaps persuade them (the one I trust) to reading Mysteries E-book which promotes hardcore newbie outings. Then see if he wants to go and try & get girls. I think at that point he should say yes

I am sure there is a better psychological approach to this but cant figure it out. Perhaps using some NLP will help. lol

rrrrr: Hell of a idea (gay as pivot). I am sure it has been tried before, check out archives?


dr0p

 

[blinkwatt]

I tried this with a friends from work. It was pointless, he was so close minded I'm not even gonna give him another shot unless he ask me. He is 21 and never been on a date and he tells me I have no clue what Im talking about??

 

[dr0pxx]

lol, thats what I am afraid of. you should show him some pix of girls & watch him foam @ the mouth

 

[blinkwatt]

lol, thats what I am afraid of. you should show him some pix of girls & watch him foam @ the mouth

You never know unless you try. Who knows maybe he turns into the best wingman you know,maybe he takes everything you tell him and he laughs at you. Either way its better you give him a shot and teach him,if he is willing.

 

[92 GSR-4]

Look, I think it's a great idea. Most of the social anxiety occurs when you have to "cold approach" or break the ice. If you have the balls to crack open a 2 set, then more than likely your AFC friend will have little problem conversing. I would make an awesome wingman, in that I have anxiety approaching the woman and breaking the ice..after that I'm gold! Except I usually ruin it within the first 20 seconds..:crazy: