"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Creating a FB relationship

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ntdawg

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Hey Guys,

I would like some advice. I am dating this girl and we have our second date planned for this evening. I have decided for various reasons that I am not suitable for a LTR or even STR with this woman but want her to be a FB. Ie LJBFB - Let's Just Be Fvck Buddies!

Has anyone got any advice on a good way of going about this? I was planning on taking her out doing the usual conversation, using Kino and trying to get her back to my place.

I don't want to spend too much time on this so do you think I am best off telling her that I don't want a relationship but that we still could have fun?

Note: I have only made it to 2nd base with this chick. I also know she is attracted to me.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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MOST girls don't run away that the same things that guys do. Those same girls don't run away from a potential relationship, they are willing to wait until it gets better.

What I mean is most girls will accept a FB relationship if you are worth the wait. Make sure your teasing/challenging hand is strong. Stay ahead of the action, not behind. Know, KNOW, KNOW, that you can have sex with her first, and than distance yourself afterwards. Most assh0les don't care enough to notice the girl will give you more, if you just tease her a little bit longer.
 
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You really just have to find a girl you know is interested in a FB relationship (these tend to be on the slvtty side). If a girl only wants a "real" relationship, it's not going to be very easy to change her mind.

Alternatively, wait until you get to college and it will be much easier.
 
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I don;t think she is the FB kind but I haven't qualified to thst extent. I think I will try to get her is the sack. If it looks like it will take time them NEXT.

She's not worth the wait. h
 
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