Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Create My Gameplan

CORVETTE06

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You get to plan my gameplan!

What should be my next move?

Heres the information:
  • This girl suggested we should get together.
  • I responded by asking her to dinner
  • She couldnt, and suggested next week
  • I saw her in the club, she came up to me and we talked/danced
  • She gave me her number and told me to call her so we can get dinner the next weekend
  • She also told me to text her when i left the club so we could hang out after
  • I texted her, but she did not respond. (perhaps she didnt get my text message -- my friend didnt get one that i sent to him the next day)

So its up to you - what should be my next move?

My thoughts were to call her on Thursday and ask her if she wants to get dinner Saturday night. What do you think about this?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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CORVETTE06

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i decided im going to CALL (rather than text) her on Thursday to ask her out for Saturday night. hope this is a good plan
 
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