alright anyone... need some ****in advice
so theres this girl, ridiculously crazy about her. ive known her for about a year, she studied abroad for a semester. has seemed like all she has wante to do is hang out with her girl friends. i have chased her for so long and i get no where. so i try not chasing her and it doenst work either.
so ive had a million conversations with her about my feelings for her... and finally have gotten her to admit she has feelings as well.
a month ago i got so frusterated she wouldnt commit to anything that i just stopped talking to her for a month... and of course she came back to me. she called me and said she doesnt know why she hasnt given me a chance, and she wants to give it a chance and to start seeing me more.
so i call her up a couple days later ask her to hang out... she says maybe bleh is all flaky etc. keep asking and she keeps blowing me off.
so im like wtf. so i get more aggressive. i say do you really wanna hang out more or waht and she says yes.
so i see her two days in a row... and i ask her out to dinner on hte third day. she says she doesnt want me to get the wrong impression about things.
so i call her and she says how she just wants to be friends... and im like wtf are you talking about i thought we were gonna see how things went... so she basically just gives me a bunch of BS doesnt really matter what she said because she doesnt mean anything she says and contradicts herself all hte time. she just keeps going back and forth.
now her background: what i know of, she had a hookup buddy in high school through the beginning of college. i just found this out. and she says she had a boyfriend in high school. yet her best freind told me she has never had a boyfriend. and i guess when she studied abroad that kid had a girlfriend when she got back and she said it really hurt her.
my background: i have never had a serious girlfriend. just some drunk hookups. most ive done is made out with a girl sober.
so i really dont know waht to do. ive waited so much for the opportunity to kiss her... but she never gives inviting body language. she is scared to death of getting invovled with me. but i know she has feelings and gets jealous if i talk about other girls etc but refuses to get involved.
so what should i do? i cant take this **** anymore. but i cant see myself w/o her. and i know how she feels. she says all this **** how she doesnt want to hurt me. but i really think she is just scared to death of getting hurt herself.
i know ive been chasing her too much. but ive gone through phases... i dont chase her and shell come after me... but never still commit that way. so i get frusterated and hotly pursue her. and that doesnt work either.
thank you for reading and i would appreciate any advice.
justin
so theres this girl, ridiculously crazy about her. ive known her for about a year, she studied abroad for a semester. has seemed like all she has wante to do is hang out with her girl friends. i have chased her for so long and i get no where. so i try not chasing her and it doenst work either.
so ive had a million conversations with her about my feelings for her... and finally have gotten her to admit she has feelings as well.
a month ago i got so frusterated she wouldnt commit to anything that i just stopped talking to her for a month... and of course she came back to me. she called me and said she doesnt know why she hasnt given me a chance, and she wants to give it a chance and to start seeing me more.
so i call her up a couple days later ask her to hang out... she says maybe bleh is all flaky etc. keep asking and she keeps blowing me off.
so im like wtf. so i get more aggressive. i say do you really wanna hang out more or waht and she says yes.
so i see her two days in a row... and i ask her out to dinner on hte third day. she says she doesnt want me to get the wrong impression about things.
so i call her and she says how she just wants to be friends... and im like wtf are you talking about i thought we were gonna see how things went... so she basically just gives me a bunch of BS doesnt really matter what she said because she doesnt mean anything she says and contradicts herself all hte time. she just keeps going back and forth.
now her background: what i know of, she had a hookup buddy in high school through the beginning of college. i just found this out. and she says she had a boyfriend in high school. yet her best freind told me she has never had a boyfriend. and i guess when she studied abroad that kid had a girlfriend when she got back and she said it really hurt her.
my background: i have never had a serious girlfriend. just some drunk hookups. most ive done is made out with a girl sober.
so i really dont know waht to do. ive waited so much for the opportunity to kiss her... but she never gives inviting body language. she is scared to death of getting invovled with me. but i know she has feelings and gets jealous if i talk about other girls etc but refuses to get involved.
so what should i do? i cant take this **** anymore. but i cant see myself w/o her. and i know how she feels. she says all this **** how she doesnt want to hurt me. but i really think she is just scared to death of getting hurt herself.
i know ive been chasing her too much. but ive gone through phases... i dont chase her and shell come after me... but never still commit that way. so i get frusterated and hotly pursue her. and that doesnt work either.
thank you for reading and i would appreciate any advice.
justin
