gravityeyelids
Master Don Juan
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What a night. Went out to bars last night. Took a bit to warm up but once i got going i was doing well, talking to different girls, etc. I meet this one girl, we'll call her rachel. We start talking and she's being very direct and straightforward with no bullsh!t. Her interest is obvious without being too heavy handed. She even buys me a drink. Still talking to her when the bar is about to close and she straight up goes "you wanna come back to my apartment?". I say "sure, lets do it". So we get back and have some rum and start hooking up. Got whisky **** (well more like performance anxiety but i'll blame it on the alcohol). Butttt i made her come twice with my fingers, so i feel less bad about that. Here's where it really goes downhill.
We're hooking up and suddenly she leaves the room and i cant find her. I didn't find out why until the next morning. So i'm alone at her apartment and it's like 3am. I'm confused and very drunk, so i walk out of her apartment thinking maybe she went to her car or to have a smoke or something... I'm so drunk that once i leave the apt and go down to the first floor i realize i have no idea which apartment number it is, and now not even which floor. I start calling and texting her (way too many times because im drunk and confused and it's like 3:30am). No answer. Keep in mind she drove me here and i'm miles away from where my car is parked. Some how i managed to find her place again and i go in and crash, still confused and honestly a little irritated that she would bring a guy back and then bail.
I wake up and she's still not there, and i'm like "what the fvck??". While i'm texting my friend to pick me up, my fvcking phone dies while i'm typing the address. Great. A little while after, (like 1pm), she comes back. She basically ignores me and i'm like "where did you go?", which is a reasonable question when one leaves a stranger in their house at 3am. She goes "well i went to my friend's house after you hit me." "Hit you?" "Yes, you slapped me in the face last night and i had to get out of here. I thought you would be gone by now. You dont remember?"
No. I didnt remember that at all. I was shocked. I don't do that type of thing. I love women and would never think about hitting or abusing them, even if they did something terrible to me. after asking a bit more she said "yea...i think you thought it was something that was supposed to be...intimate". Which now makes sense because i do tend to be a little rough during sex. But not what i would call violent or over the top. I've found that almost all girls love being slapped in the face during sex. I really should have made sure that she was okay with it before doing so. And i was very drunk so i probably used a bit too much force. I understand that she must have felt threatened having a man in her home alone with her hit her. And i feel like sh!t about it. I apologized sincerely a number of times in the morning. And thankfully i think she started to realize that i did feel terrible about it and that i'm not like that.
She was still a bit pissed but opened up a little bit and even offered me a cigarette when she was on the porch and was courteous enough to call me an Uber (never used one before but apparently they charge the card of the person who calls it). I asked if i could give her a hug when i was leaving. she said sure. Gave her a hug. Asked if i could call her and she said 'you can but i can't guarantee i'll answer.'
i do think she's cool and would like to hang out again. Am i crazy for thinking this? We hit it off well before that. and weirdly enough she still seemed attracted to me the next morning. Thoughts?
We're hooking up and suddenly she leaves the room and i cant find her. I didn't find out why until the next morning. So i'm alone at her apartment and it's like 3am. I'm confused and very drunk, so i walk out of her apartment thinking maybe she went to her car or to have a smoke or something... I'm so drunk that once i leave the apt and go down to the first floor i realize i have no idea which apartment number it is, and now not even which floor. I start calling and texting her (way too many times because im drunk and confused and it's like 3:30am). No answer. Keep in mind she drove me here and i'm miles away from where my car is parked. Some how i managed to find her place again and i go in and crash, still confused and honestly a little irritated that she would bring a guy back and then bail.
I wake up and she's still not there, and i'm like "what the fvck??". While i'm texting my friend to pick me up, my fvcking phone dies while i'm typing the address. Great. A little while after, (like 1pm), she comes back. She basically ignores me and i'm like "where did you go?", which is a reasonable question when one leaves a stranger in their house at 3am. She goes "well i went to my friend's house after you hit me." "Hit you?" "Yes, you slapped me in the face last night and i had to get out of here. I thought you would be gone by now. You dont remember?"
No. I didnt remember that at all. I was shocked. I don't do that type of thing. I love women and would never think about hitting or abusing them, even if they did something terrible to me. after asking a bit more she said "yea...i think you thought it was something that was supposed to be...intimate". Which now makes sense because i do tend to be a little rough during sex. But not what i would call violent or over the top. I've found that almost all girls love being slapped in the face during sex. I really should have made sure that she was okay with it before doing so. And i was very drunk so i probably used a bit too much force. I understand that she must have felt threatened having a man in her home alone with her hit her. And i feel like sh!t about it. I apologized sincerely a number of times in the morning. And thankfully i think she started to realize that i did feel terrible about it and that i'm not like that.
She was still a bit pissed but opened up a little bit and even offered me a cigarette when she was on the porch and was courteous enough to call me an Uber (never used one before but apparently they charge the card of the person who calls it). I asked if i could give her a hug when i was leaving. she said sure. Gave her a hug. Asked if i could call her and she said 'you can but i can't guarantee i'll answer.'
i do think she's cool and would like to hang out again. Am i crazy for thinking this? We hit it off well before that. and weirdly enough she still seemed attracted to me the next morning. Thoughts?
