"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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all right guys this is my story.

all stated with a friendly hi. one day a girl came up to me in school and said hi, i caried on from there, eventually i got her number we stated talking. she is older then me by a year and decided to intoduce me to her sister, so i was like sure thing. so i called and it didnt click, so i was like **** it i want the older one. some how i got her, and she would call me and asked me out if i was busy on monday i was like nah i am free. we decided to go to play some pool, every thing whent well and **** one of her guy friends came over we chilled. latter that week everything was going smothly until friday. after we have back form starbucks i called her at around 11 30, she asked me to call her back in 1h so i did. when i did she was kinda down so i was like yo whats up, to the point where she was like " yo i cant be with you any more" i was like ok and why. she told me she wasnt good enought for me and i responded with how about u let me decide on that she is like just trsut me. but i all i wanted to know is why, count get it out of her on the first try. called back 5 mins later adn asked her again, what she told me this time was y she said " u know the kid u meet i am with him for about a year now" i was like wtf and aked her waht happened then at the pool when he stoped by, she was like we got this undestanding he liesk to have some fun and me too. i was like well ty for telling me and she was like did u really had to make me hate you, i was like no all good. so i said goodnight and she hanged up.

now what do i do now? do i call her right now and ask her how was her sleed since this was at round 3am last night and act like notihng happened

or

i wait till monday and come up and say hi bla bla bla and say give me a call when u are boared again.

btw i still kinda wana go out with this girl
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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excuse me?

this girl lied to you and played you and used you as a sex object?

don't get me wrong, that can all be fun IF YOU KNOW WHAT YOU'RE GETTING YOURSELF INTO. you didn't. you wanted a relationship with her, and she played you for a fool.

why would you ever talk to this b1tch again?
 

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i have a feeling she likes me but for some reason i dont know why she cant be with me, the reason i think this way is because i called her today for a finnal attemped to ask her to meet me, since all of this happened on the phone. i wanted to take her to this play and just talk to her. but i wasnt able to acomplsh any thing because wehn i called for some reason she was mad at me. she was like " why are u calling me i told you i was working" so since seh was not in the mood i was like can u stop being gay. her responce was cant you understand that i am with somebody. so i was like ok but could we be friends. What she said shoked me.....her "no i got enought friends allready" so i was just like allright suit urself and she hanged up.

now why the **** would she get mad at me for no reason out of no where, i didnt do anything to her neither did i say any **** to her. just like that out of no where she said i cant bewith u and i got enought friends
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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come one people i need to nkow what to do, i am gona see her on monday in school tommorw...plz help out
 

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Originally posted by Microphone Fiend
A note to all newbies...all this started with A SIMPLE HI.... The **** does work!!!!
cheers mic, i've been telling them this forever. they just DON'T GET IT.

dude, this girl played you, now she's throwing you out with the garbage and you are trying to get her back? NEXT

her reason is bullsh!t. she's lying

NEXT, DONE, FINISHED!
 
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