"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Crazy POF girl...this just happened ....

Hyper2010

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Closed a HB6 I started talking with a few hours ago, positive, happy language, gave me number. OK

Rang her at her request 10 mins ago, half way through sentence she LITERALLY interrupts me dead and goes....

"Youll have to excuse me...I'm off for a big, massive Sh1t!"

Then hung up

Is it me or is pOF just full of retards with something wrong with them??
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Poonani Maker

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Supposed to meet one tomorrow afternoon, she's worried that she "offended" me because I did not reply for a couple of days...we'll have to see. I have backups should she flake me. She's supposedly off an 8 Year relationship and "not used to dating"...we'll see.
 

Peaks&Valleys

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POF, not really surprised. You should have asked her to take a picture of it and send it to you.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Expecting to meet a quality woman worthy of a relationship on POF would be equal to me going to a brothel in search of a wife.
 

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I'm not on PoF, but the only girl I know who is, is the biggest nutcase I've ever met.

So yeah, have fun...
 

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Some of these recent threads are too funny. But this is not suprising in the least. The thing about sites like PoF is, it's a tool for people who can't normally get dates, or keep anyone over the long-term (due to being unpleasant people, and sucking at life). It's not an easy-access ordeal, and this is probably a "blue pill" category of its own.

So, you end up with a bunch of crazy retards with no class, personality, social skills, mannerisms, and the trash that no one wants / probably already hates. The same trash you find on the streets, at bars, etc. Some of the girls might be "hot", but they're still garbage.
 

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floydb25 said:
Some of these recent threads are too funny. But this is not suprising in the least. The thing about sites like PoF is, it's a tool for people who can't normally get dates, or keep anyone over the long-term (due to being unpleasant people, and sucking at life). It's not an easy-access ordeal, and this is probably a "blue pill" category of its own.

So, you end up with a bunch of crazy retards with no class, personality, social skills, mannerisms, and the trash that no one wants / probably already hates. The same trash you find on the streets, at bars, etc. Some of the girls might be "hot", but they're still garbage.

100% correct.

The real "problem" is most dudes are either desperate or have the ego mentality of: "oh this guy who in text seems to hate POF is a loser. I'm better than him, He's bitter and probably ugly, has nothing to offer etc. So I'm going to disregard his advice and do it my way." Till they themselves get no replies or find out they are meeting slore after slore online or are a chump with God looks and wife up a POF cvm dumpster and find out the hard way.

I don't care if dudes pump and dump online chicks..In all honesty that's all they're worth and looking for as they have ZERO clue about a normal healthy relationship. Not any of them. Period. No bitterness. Straight truth.
 

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djjizzyjeff said:
100% correct.

The real "problem" is most dudes are either desperate or have the ego mentality of: "oh this guy who in text seems to hate POF is a loser. I'm better than him, He's bitter and probably ugly, has nothing to offer etc. So I'm going to disregard his advice and do it my way." Till they themselves get no replies or find out they are meeting slore after slore online or are a chump with God looks and wife up a POF cvm dumpster and find out the hard way.

I don't care if dudes pump and dump online chicks..In all honesty that's all they're worth and looking for as they have ZERO clue about a normal healthy relationship. Not any of them. Period. No bitterness. Straight truth.

True...pumping and dumping girls does feel pathetic after a while...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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djjizzyjeff said:
100% correct.

The real "problem" is most dudes are either desperate or have the ego mentality of: "oh this guy who in text seems to hate POF is a loser. I'm better than him, He's bitter and probably ugly, has nothing to offer etc. So I'm going to disregard his advice and do it my way." Till they themselves get no replies or find out they are meeting slore after slore online or are a chump with God looks and wife up a POF cvm dumpster and find out the hard way.

I don't care if dudes pump and dump online chicks..In all honesty that's all they're worth and looking for as they have ZERO clue about a normal healthy relationship. Not any of them. Period. No bitterness. Straight truth.
I'm a million times happier in a good LTR rather than fawking random skanks every week. Not even comparable. Don't get me wrong, going out on the hunt and getting strange is great, for a short period of time, but it is such an empty way to live. Nothing better than to have someone you can count on 100%, who is there for you. Who you can do things with on a daily basis like work out together, go to dinner and a movie, hell just play scrabble together.

Much more fulfilling than getting drunk and waking up next to some slooooot.
 

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Hyper2010 said:
Guys

Closed a HB6 I started talking with a few hours ago, positive, happy language, gave me number. OK

Rang her at her request 10 mins ago, half way through sentence she LITERALLY interrupts me dead and goes....

"Youll have to excuse me...I'm off for a big, massive Sh1t!"

Then hung up

Is it me or is pOF just full of retards with something wrong with them??
THIS IS A DEFINITE SHIIT TEST:yes:
 

djjizzyjeff

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cordoncordon said:
I'm a million times happier in a good LTR rather than fawking random skanks every week. Not even comparable. Don't get me wrong, going out on the hunt and getting strange is great, for a short period of time, but it is such an empty way to live. Nothing better than to have someone you can count on 100%, who is there for you. Who you can do things with on a daily basis like work out together, go to dinner and a movie, hell just play scrabble together.

Much more fulfilling than getting drunk and waking up next to some slooooot.

That's what I'd search for too. For dudes who want to pump and dump chicks for some sort of "DJ" ego boost. Cool.

I'd prefer a normal healthy relationship any time. I have no time to waste with trash. I don't care how hot the chick is. Let some other dude claim that type of prize.

Which is why I'd never bother with online chicks or one I'd met in real life who said she had used online dating...ESPECIALLY a free site.

Literally in real life I know 7 chicks who've used online dating. And each and every one of them had serious issues, were and are slvts, and so on. The worst of the worst. All of them are very attractive but are 100% the type of "challenge" no sane non desperate for pvzzy would ever even contemplate wasting their time with.
 

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Purefilth said:
THIS IS A DEFINITE SHIIT TEST:yes:

HAHA Damn you!!! ^^^^agreed, don't worry about it, just a sh1t test.
 

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I've started trolling POF again.. Looks like more loonies and std's in my future.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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