Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Crazy obsessive chick freaking me out

Jariel

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It must be crazy month for me as they all seem to be showing their true colours at the moment.

I was out over a week ago and this woman in her early 40s started chatting me up. She wasn't stunning, but she had an amazing body and I found myself really turned on by her and figured she'd be great to bang. So when she asked for my number I gave it to her.

She texted a lot that night and seemed pretty full on so I eased off. She continued to text me, but I was already pursuing another girl so I just told her I was busy and maybe we could catch up in a week or two.

Fast forward to the last couple of days and she's been sending me text after text, begging me to fvck her, sending me naked pictures, telling me she will do absolutely anything to please me. I started responding and suggested we get together for some fun in the week. Meanwhile she added me to Facebook and I see she's got a boyfriend.

I don't know why, but it p!ssed me off...more for his sake than mine. I've been getting cynical about women and their manipulative games and lies lately so I told her to forget about it and told her off about cheating on her boyfriend.

She's been telling me how she doesn't care about him, he can't satisfy her and she'd dump him now for me and will do it on his Facebook wall so I can see. What a b!tch!!

I told her I'm just not interested and she's been texting and trying to call me constantly, literally begging me to give her a chance, telling me I'm the best looking guy she's met and acting crazy. Since I've started writing this email I've received 5 unanswered texts from her....make that 6.

I've blocked her on FB and I'm ignoring her, but she won't stop (7 txts now).

Just read the texts and they're all begging and negotiating, asking how she can prove it, saying I can go and fvck her in the a$$ right now if I want and cvm all over her. I'm not even tempted now, just want to get rid of her.

I'm just thankful she doesn't know where I live. Is ignoring her my best solution?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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lol you asking us what you should do?
i think you know the answer. YES just ignore all contact from her. Eventually, she will stop. they all stop at some point
 

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Jariel said:
It must be crazy month for me as they all seem to be showing their true colours at the moment.

I was out over a week ago and this woman in her early 40s started chatting me up. She wasn't stunning, but she had an amazing body and I found myself really turned on by her and figured she'd be great to bang. So when she asked for my number I gave it to her.

She texted a lot that night and seemed pretty full on so I eased off. She continued to text me, but I was already pursuing another girl so I just told her I was busy and maybe we could catch up in a week or two.

Fast forward to the last couple of days and she's been sending me text after text, begging me to fvck her, sending me naked pictures, telling me she will do absolutely anything to please me. I started responding and suggested we get together for some fun in the week. Meanwhile she added me to Facebook and I see she's got a boyfriend.

I don't know why, but it p!ssed me off...more for his sake than mine. I've been getting cynical about women and their manipulative games and lies lately so I told her to forget about it and told her off about cheating on her boyfriend.

She's been telling me how she doesn't care about him, he can't satisfy her and she'd dump him now for me and will do it on his Facebook wall so I can see. What a b!tch!!

I told her I'm just not interested and she's been texting and trying to call me constantly, literally begging me to give her a chance, telling me I'm the best looking guy she's met and acting crazy. Since I've started writing this email I've received 5 unanswered texts from her....make that 6.

I've blocked her on FB and I'm ignoring her, but she won't stop (7 txts now).

Just read the texts and they're all begging and negotiating, asking how she can prove it, saying I can go and fvck her in the a$$ right now if I want and cvm all over her. I'm not even tempted now, just want to get rid of her.

I'm just thankful she doesn't know where I live. Is ignoring her my best solution?
Just go NC on her, J. And if she still contacts you, just send a message acting like you're your phone company:

"Free message from AT&T: the user you are trying to contact has requested not

to receive call or text messages from this number. Our 4G network is now up to ten

times faster than 3G. AT&T, your world, delivered."


It actually worked pretty well for me with a few girls. One

of them was texting me non-stop about how she liked me & then turned

hostile telling me she'd set my motorcycle on fire. The other girl was a

psycho with some real issues--sent both girls that text and never heard back

from them. If that fails, though you can always tell her you just realized

you're gay ;) Good luck!
 

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Be honest mate, would you have made this thread if you weren't at least tempted to bang her brains out..?

Pretty simply, if you don't want to see her again, then don't answer any texts.

Sounds like a crazy to me.

If it was me, I wouldn't let her find out where you live, and not take the risk of going to her place (never know when some crazy boyfriend would show up).
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Robyn923b said:
Just go NC on her, J. And if she still contacts you, just send a message acting like you're your phone company:

"Free message from AT&T: the user you are trying to contact has requested not

to receive call or text messages from this number. Our 4G network is now up to ten

times faster than 3G. AT&T, your world, delivered."
Yes, I think I will try this one! I've ignored her texts, but she just hasn't stopped and is even sending me more naked pictures that she's taking just to send to me. It's gone beyond creepy now and I think she might have some serious mental health problems.

Failing that I might try and find a guy with my name and give her his number. :)
 

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runner83 said:
Be honest mate, would you have made this thread if you weren't at least tempted to bang her brains out..?
I was, but all I can think of now is Stephen King's Misery.
 
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