"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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crazy nite with HB8 bartender

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I went out sat nite with 2 of my boys to the local bar and the whole nite my 2 boys are trying real hard to kick it with this bartender...finally she agrees and all 4 of us go to her house...we drink for awhile and my friends were still gaming real hard. so i just chilled till about 5 am and went to sleep in one of her guestsrooms...I could hear them still downstairs for awhile then finally i nod out. at some point during my 2 hour sleep i half-way wake up and she's in the guest-bed with me playing with my u kno wat...as soon as i realize wats going on my friends knock and tell me lets go home. I doubt my boys got any play from her because I dont think she's the DP type. was she singling me out cuz im the one that DIDNT get at her? damn next trip to the bar is gonna be akward
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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awkward how? id go and milk it, get free drinks if she offered, flirt with other girls and use her as social proof, and if anything, take her home at close if i strike out with other chicks...
 

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Man I'd just tell my friends to leave without me. Why didn't you do this? You weren't that into her, or you have something against taking cabs or what?
 

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Man I'd just tell my friends to leave without me. Why didn't you do this? You weren't that into her, or you have something against taking cabs or what?
nah i would have had to walk 4 miles and i didnt wanna stay around (her dad is a biker)
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Killer_Demo said:
was she singling me out cuz im the one that DIDNT get at her? damn next trip to the bar is gonna be akward
its coz the wernt the desperate horn-dog you buddies were being!
women can smell desperation a mile off!

it will only be awkward if YOU MAKE it awkward...

i wonder if you buddies wanted to leave when they realised who she was going for... an interesting point!

PS it wernt THAT crazy!:p but well done!
 
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kingsam said:
its coz the wernt the desperate horn-dog you buddies were being!
women can smell desperation a mile off!

it will only be awkward if YOU MAKE it awkward...

i wonder if you buddies wanted to leave when they realised who she was going for... an interesting point!

PS it wernt THAT crazy!:p but well done!
ya ur right about the desperation...i think she could feel it...plus im never an agressive guy...just chill ya know? well we'll c wat happens this weekend! ill post up again if anything happens
 

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i wonder if you buddies wanted to leave when they realised who she was going for... an interesting point!
I wondered that also. Honestly, I don't blame them for being p!ssed off if that's the case. The OP was so disinterested he was actually off sleeping somewhere while they were trying to put the work in to get the girl, and she decides she wants him. This is precisely why so many men are angry at women.
 

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zekko said:
I wondered that also. Honestly, I don't blame them for being p!ssed off if that's the case. The OP was so disinterested he was actually off sleeping somewhere while they were trying to put the work in to get the girl, and she decides she wants him. This is precisely why so many men are angry at women.
if they are real buddies they should have been HAPPY for him, then as she got it on walked in and joined the fun :whistle:


I can't count the number of times it was me and a friend and 1 chick hanging out, with everyone wondering "who's gonna get her?"

instead of ****blocking the one who was either feeling her less or wasn't doing as hot would just go to bed and leave the condoms for the friend.

what we really wanted to do is:

"walk in switcharoo" on the girl.. have her doggy style one guy puts his hand on her back pulls out, the other one creeps up, puts it in, puts his hand down on her back... boom!

that's how it should work!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Amazing said:
if they are real buddies they should have been HAPPY for him, then as she got it on walked in and joined the fun :whistle:
yeh soo true well id be well happy for a buddy if they got laid!
I can't count the number of times it was me and a friend and 1 chick hanging out, with everyone wondering "who's gonna get her?"
normally its quite obvious who the chick prefers isnt it?
well maybee for US guys who "get it" it is! well you cant undesetimate the cluelessness of the typical AFC!
for the OP's example the guys must have been hella jelous...
instead of ****blocking the one who was either feeling her less or wasn't doing as hot would just go to bed and leave the condoms for the friend.

what we really wanted to do is:

"walk in switcharoo" on the girl.. have her doggy style one guy puts his hand on her back pulls out, the other one creeps up, puts it in, puts his hand down on her back... boom!

that's how it should work!
i think its really a really funny thing to double-team a girl with a buddy (yet to do tho ), i was on holiday last yr and hooked up with a girl - i was saying in to her we should get my buddy involved... never got that far, but the day after my buddy was all wierded-out... was like dude got over yourself!
 
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