I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
SmoothTalker said:Man, that's an awesome idea. Maybe if we eventually work up to 100X gravity like Goku, we'll even turn super sayan. How sweet would that be?
Lol..
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
You may need some of these....Hockey Playa said:I was watching dragon ball Z, and Goku trained at different gravities, all the way up to 100 X earths gravity!! he got ****ing jacked to sh1t, and no one could touch him. Does the hyperbolic time chamber exist in real life so try this
i think ill try at 2x earth gravity first.
Goku applied progressive loading, just like Milo in Ancient Greece.Hockey Playa said:I was watching dragon ball Z, and Goku trained at different gravities, all the way up to 100 X earths gravity!! he got ****ing jacked to sh1t, and no one could touch him. Does the hyperbolic time chamber exist in real life so try this
i think ill try at 2x earth gravity first.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.