That_Guy49
Don Juan
You're trying to go out with a girl and one day you find out she's f*cking some idiot in the other room....Would you still try to DJ her?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
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AC/DC
Master Don Juan
Hell no. I'd try to hit that!
That's on the real. I would.
That's on the real. I would.
That_Guy49
Don Juan
yeah, hittin it...thats what I mean.. Would you still try to hit it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
thats what you ment to say right?
Seriously though, if she f*cks someone else, you have two choices.
1) You next her, maintain your self respect as a man, and find some other fish in the sea.
2) You go after the sl*t, you lose all respect, and you cry yourself to sleep at night.
Frankly, I'd go for the 1st choice. But thats just me.