"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Crazy girls or Me?

bob2007

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When you start dating enough women, short or long term, and you think they are crazy,
naturally, you being to think maybe it's you that's crazy?

GIRL 1
Dated 9 months, shes yelling at me in the restaurant, loud enough for other people to hear.
In the car, she's so pissed off she decides to walk off home.
Day after we make up. She says, "Even tho I walked off on you, I still expected that we hang out later that night."
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Von

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When you start dating enough women, short or long term, and you think they are crazy,
naturally, you being to think maybe it's you that's crazy?

GIRL 1
Dated 9 months, shes yelling at me in the restaurant, loud enough for other people to hear.
In the car, she's so pissed off she decides to walk off home.
Day after we make up. She says, "Even tho I walked off on you, I still expected that we hang out later that night."
I don't know what you are doing but you sure know how to keep her on ;)
 

logicallefty

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I've been through this. Questioning myself after multiple crazies in a row. It's only been within the past few years I've been able to come to solid ground on it: It's on me for picking bad women, but statistically speaking there are more bad ones than good ones to choose from.
 

dutchmaster

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the crazies are the fun ones..

I saw some crazy slut I know post on instagram, "good p5ssy comes with a crazy b1tch attached to it"
 
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