Blacksheep
Master Don Juan
Hey guys,
This weekend I had a crazy situation. I was picking up a girl that got really in love with me. I said to her that I didnt want to get involved on a LTR, that I liked her, but I would not give her my exclusivity. And this just make her more crazy about me, she tried everything to lock me on her cage.
So, yesterday I was with my friend and some girls at my home, I was picking up another girl and sometime on that day that "crazy girl" arrived at my home, and she stayed outside punching the gate and calling my name. I told her that what she was doing was wrong and disrespectul, that she should leave and stop this. She ask me to open the gate so we could have a "friendly conversation" hahaha... Obviously I didn't do that and ignore her. She stayed in front of my house for 3 hours, and I had to talk to her again to leave, that I don't want what she wants from me.
I felt bad for that cause I dont want to be evil to someone, but I also know that I'm not resposible for her instable emotions. She is a nice person, but I know that she wanted this LTR because of who I become. I was not the "good guy" I used to be in the past, cause I just ****ed my life keeping that mentality. Now I take care of my life and projects, and I really dont think having a LTR cause I cant believe a healthy and honest LTR can exist. Also my live is improving so much since I become this new me. I don't have to go find girls, they just come to me naturally, and the more I become confident and happy with my body and mind, the more I know that I'm on the right direction.
At the same time I dont like to make someone cry or get sad, I ask myself if this sadness she felt is true. And also I remember all the times I was the "good guy" and got rejected, cheated and all the ****s by the same girls like her.
Share your opinions please.
This weekend I had a crazy situation. I was picking up a girl that got really in love with me. I said to her that I didnt want to get involved on a LTR, that I liked her, but I would not give her my exclusivity. And this just make her more crazy about me, she tried everything to lock me on her cage.
So, yesterday I was with my friend and some girls at my home, I was picking up another girl and sometime on that day that "crazy girl" arrived at my home, and she stayed outside punching the gate and calling my name. I told her that what she was doing was wrong and disrespectul, that she should leave and stop this. She ask me to open the gate so we could have a "friendly conversation" hahaha... Obviously I didn't do that and ignore her. She stayed in front of my house for 3 hours, and I had to talk to her again to leave, that I don't want what she wants from me.
I felt bad for that cause I dont want to be evil to someone, but I also know that I'm not resposible for her instable emotions. She is a nice person, but I know that she wanted this LTR because of who I become. I was not the "good guy" I used to be in the past, cause I just ****ed my life keeping that mentality. Now I take care of my life and projects, and I really dont think having a LTR cause I cant believe a healthy and honest LTR can exist. Also my live is improving so much since I become this new me. I don't have to go find girls, they just come to me naturally, and the more I become confident and happy with my body and mind, the more I know that I'm on the right direction.
At the same time I dont like to make someone cry or get sad, I ask myself if this sadness she felt is true. And also I remember all the times I was the "good guy" and got rejected, cheated and all the ****s by the same girls like her.
Share your opinions please.
