Crazy drama, MUST READ...

[keyforit]

Sup fellow Don Juans, I use to post on here years ago when I was younger and needed help with the ladies. Having said that I must say I gained a lot of knowledge from this site and I have not had any problems last few years. I've been with all kinds of women and I've been pretty satisfied with my skills. Well until now... I'm in a real bad situation.

The story:

I'm in the Navy and I'm stationed on isolated duty in the middle of nowhere on a secluded island. The quantity of women here is very limited not to mention the quantity of good looking ones. After being here about 2 months I found my first victim, this really hot asian girl who's in the military. So I do my thing, we hook up and off she goes. Well she then tells me she likes me but that I should know the truth, I tell her to go ahead (at this point im telling myself I don't even care this chick was just a peice of ass to begin with). She goes on to tell me how she's going through a seperation and how she has a boyfriend on the island but she really likes me and wants to keep "seeing" me. My first thought on this whole situation is, the sex is good so why wouldn't I keep seeing her? Any man in the right mind would love a scenario like this, woman with great body, great looks, great in bed and she wants nothing but sex with me and to top it off on the downlow so no one finds out? That's every mans dream, or is it? See after about a week or 2 of "seeing" her randomly show up in my room and call me at all kinds of hours I somehow started to develop some form of emotion for this girl. I know what you guys are thinking, how the hell could I be so stupid right? Well I don't know man I'm at the point right now where I'm seriously contemplating not seeing her again because I don't want to like this chick. I've weighed all the angles, basically if she does leave her boyfriend for me she'll prob just find some smuck like she did with me to have on the side. To top it off she's still married and after I leave here I'll probably never see her again. Clearly this is not what I want. Thing is I don't exactly know what I want. What I do know is I want her all to myself and I want her to chase after me (all the guys chase after her). She tells me plain out "i really like you but I want to keep things a secret between us and I still want to be with my boyfriend".

Guys what should I do? Can I turn a hoe into a housewife? Of course not, but can I get her to just want me and no one else? If so, how could I go about this? Reason I'm asking you guys is I'm not thinking clearly right now, my emotions are getting best of me and I can't talk to my friends here about it because there's too many haters all around me to discuss it. Should I drop her and just hope she comes to her senses? Real confused, help me out fellas. Thanks.

 

[oneboy21]

Wrong idea to turn a hoe into a house wife...have fun that's it. you are falling for this chick which is not what you supposed to do.

 

[sexysuave]

ahhahaha dude, quit being a BIT*H. A girl wants to have SEX with you, but DOES NOT want a relationship with you. You've got it made! And no, this is not some "crazy drama" if you really read this forum constantly you would know that this is pretty damn common. A guy who starts sleepign with someone else's girl, and then starts "developing feelings" wow, this is the dumbest sh*t out there, I tell ya. I dunno, maybe I'm just different, but I've had TONS of girls who were involved, but have NEVER started liking one so much taht I only want her for my self and to want her to leave the dude. That was actually always my BIGGEST fear, that she would leave the dude for me! I didn't wanna stop seeing the other 9 girls I was seeing on the side, and I defnititely did not want some slvtbag who cheats on her dude behind his back like that. Not sure why you would want this man?

You are getting commitment free p*ssy, and you are in the NAVY, why in the world would you wanna get serious with the girl? And also, usually if the sex is all that and you really rock her world, she will start talkign about being with YOU and you only, this is the SCARY part, lol, this should NOT be what you want! This is when you have to tell her that you DO NOT want a relationship with her! that you will NEVER marry her.

'ohhh hi kids" "hi dad" "hey dad" "how did you and mom meet",, "ohhh, well that's funny you ask son, mommy was actually married to someone else when we made you, you see, she was sleeping with daddy secretly and su*cking on my ding dong while her husband didn't know about it, she was also sleepign with the old husband at the same time and su*cking on his ding dong as well, to be honest kids, I really don't even know if you're my kids or his,, we should plan a field trip one of these days and go get our DNAs checked out to see if you are indeed my kids"..

Dude common, wake the f*ck up, slap your self silly and enjoy the p*ssy you're getting right now.. this chick is a HOE, so keep treating her like one.. and in this case, to help your self, do NOT talk to her about anything and have conversations with her, jsut meet up to F*CK her and that's that, dont' also be her "friend", meet her once a week, and f*ck her and leave it at that.. other than that ignore her a*s

 

[Iceberg]

Do what sexysuave says.

I'm sure this girl is just great and all, but you gotta be kidding yourself. She's great because you don't have her. Once you're in a relationship with her, I'm sure you'd find out why her old man back home isn't laying the pipe like he used to.

 

[keyforit]

You guys are right, i got blinded by the p*ssy man which is why I had to come on here and have u guys bit*h slap me back to reality. I've played a lot of girls before and never gave a fu*k, i wonder why she's so different. Probably cause she's the hottest chick on this island and there's no one else I want to fu*k, she does have a cute friend who wants to fu*k me, do you guys think that would be a good idea to fu*k her friend? Or just keep doing her and if things go sour then fu*k the friend?

 

[bigneil]

Sometimes you fool around and fall in love. It happens.

Those who pretend it doesn't happen to them most likely aren't with girls they truly consider to be extremely hot.

We all have a breaking point, and as we acquire new skills the quality of women we obtain increases. Like the formerly fat guy who loses weight yet whose self-image is still fat, we experience a delayed reaction of sorts. Also, sometimes certain women have an endearing element to their personality that we fall for.

Your inner wuss goes into hiding but once a hot enough girl comes along it makes an unwelcome appearance.

 

[keyforit]

Very well said Bigneil, couldn't have said it any better. I'm shocked at how I could have even pretended to like this chick, pus*sy power I tell you, pus*y power. Thanks guys, I mean it.

 

[Johnnyventana]

Well, if you pound her friend, it's probably because you secretly want to make her jealous. What will happen though, is you will lose them both.

Enjoy the sex. She's different, because she is crazy. You like the different, and are missing all the red flags.

 

[Rubirosa]

She's attracted to you as "the guy on the side"...........
The more you try and leave this role as the "guy on the side", the less attraction she will have for you.