"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Crazy Btch what is wrong with her ?????

StoneCold

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Hello

I met This Girl whilst with a few Sargers she was with a UG and we totally built quick rapport and stuff like that

she lives far from me 1hour on the train

We went for a Day 2 and it was really good lots of kino and comfort building

I went on a Day 3 with her around her area lots more kino and teasing and you name it

Thing is this girl is not super hot!!!! probs best about a 6 the lowest Ive ever Gone

she smokes and drinks like a bloody ***** and dosnt talk much shy about most things.....what do i know maybe thats an act..


thing is the day 3 was ****ing awesum on my part..lots of D/H/V she introduced me to loads of mates even on the phone turned on speacker mode so i can hear......

after that not much talking on the phone or by emial she seems very cold and werid even thoguh i ask her you im i got sumthing planned next week shes like yeah ok ill come but adds nothing to a convo or takes ages to reply to instant messages.......

i dont know why the **** shes having an effect on me but i think this ***** must already be with some dood.....

even though i played the game well till now i still play it good no texting ages calling always first to leave her bla bla bla


but whats the problem here i mean ??? why is she so ****ing cold and stupid...her mate is crazier then her.... but i dont talk to her on the phone or online......

so i pumped up the anti by showing more dissinterest and the way of the alpha male but the ***** still dosnt show any signs of anything this girl is ****ing crazy.....................HELP HELP HELP........
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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StoneColdFox

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Whats wrong with the Crazy bitch is that well..shes a crazy bitch lol.

Yes she may be hot, but sometimes you just gotta let it go if shes unstable..done it a million times. yes it would be great to have "kept" them to keep em in my fantasy file but.. you dont wanna get caught up in that mess.

So get out of there, unless you want to hit it and quit it. Thus be straight forward, text her saying.. Look, I want to be on you. lol ok im kidding..sort of.

Don't dwell on it, don't put that bitch on a pedestal amigo.

-SCF
 

Wiesman44

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why are u going on a date w/ a UG in the first place ? Especially an UG that lives an hour away ? lol
 

JJMcLure

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You're probably semi-hooked on her because she's not showing interest (regardless how hot she is) - you've spent time with her and spent enough time thinking about her to give yourself a bit of oneitis. You yourself are experiencing the effects of another person showing disinterest.

You say you've done teasing, comfort building, kino etc. But you don't say you've even kissed her by 'Day 3'? If you haven't at least kissed her (or anything more) then she thinks you lack confidence and has lost any interest she may have had.

From what you posted, it sounds like you may have moved to slow. If you're on a date, the interest is there - at least kiss her. Don't wait until the fourth date.

At any rate, if she is not interested the best option is to NEXT and move on, she doesn't sound like she has much going for her from what you posted anyway ("UG6, smokes and drinks a lot, has nothing to say").
 

CyranoDeBergerac

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JJMac pretty much nailed it.

I could also be way off base here, but part of it sounds like your pride's been injured a bit. You seem self-conscious about her looks, but you're still pursuing her and getting all hung up on the fact that she's not as interested in you as you are in her. You almost seem offended by stooping so low and then being slighted. It's torturing your ego.

I'm also hearing overtones of frustrated overationalization spawned from a strict adherence (blind faith?) to the rules, creating expectations which aren't being realized. It's like you think there's a solid formula to this. You got into this thinking, "I know 2+2=4. If I score 2 points here, and another two points after this, I should have four points. I've done it several times, and I'm supposed to get 4!" Now you're all frustrated because she's only giving a 3.
(Not being repetetive for it's own sake, just emphasizing the over-rationalization)

I think it all boils down to one question. Why do you even care?

-CyranoDeBergerac
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Call_Me_Daddy

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WHY?!! WHY?!!

It's people like you that breed with the trolls, that in turn give us more trolls.\

UG = STAY THE **** AWAY!

Have you no self respect? You deserve better than this b!tch.
 
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