"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Crazy B*tch.....

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Ok we all know women are crazy. I need help to sort this chick out - I just cant figure her out.

She is always buying me dinner, and bringing me food to work and stuff, grabbing my ass occassionally, brushing her tits etc. We have been going out for about 2 months.

She even says I am taking some time off - I hope you will come and see me...

But damn it, lately when I have tried to hook up some one on one time, she has blown me off for going out with her friends or some other stuff which I consider lame.

I guess basicaly its a case of mixed signals. I am damn near ready to NEXT this b*tch, but I actually am really interested in her.

How do I win her? I know most would say next her but I want to try with this one.

Should I have her up about the lame excuses and tell her to sort her **** out or just ignore the b*tch?

-Charlie
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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PS: The come and see me when I am off and the blow off was almost 10 minutes apart - make you mind up you silly cow!

(You might be able to sense some frustration here )
:rolleyes:
 

jprjrjr

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Originally posted by Charlie_aus
PS: The come and see me when I am off and the blow off was almost 10 minutes apart - make you mind up you silly cow!

(You might be able to sense some frustration here )
:rolleyes:
As intelligent as I am, I have no fvcking idea what you just said????????????
 

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Originally posted by Charlie_aus
Ok we all know women are crazy. I need help to sort this chick out - I just cant figure her out.

She is always buying me dinner, and bringing me food to work and stuff, grabbing my ass occassionally, brushing her tits etc. We have been going out for about 2 months.

She even says I am taking some time off - I hope you will come and see me...

But damn it, lately when I have tried to hook up some one on one time, she has blown me off for going out with her friends or some other stuff which I consider lame.

I guess basicaly its a case of mixed signals. I am damn near ready to NEXT this b*tch, but I actually am really interested in her.

How do I win her? I know most would say next her but I want to try with this one.

Should I have her up about the lame excuses and tell her to sort her **** out or just ignore the b*tch?

-Charlie
Listen closely...

When a man has done his job as a man and satisfied the woman's need for intimacy she will naturally pull away. If she does this and everything else is going good it just means that you're doing a good job. Let her pull away...do NOT try to pull her back. That will only make her urge to pull away that much stronger. Use that time to pursue other interests, hobbies and spend time catching up with YOUR friends. If you pull away too, her natural reaction will be to want more closeness.

So many guys mess up on this. They get scared and insecure and end up pushing her away more and more.
 

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Originally posted by jprjrjr
As intelligent as I am, I have no fvcking idea what you just said????????????
He is saying that 10 minutes after she told him to come see her she ditched him to hang out with her friends.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TedJustAdmitIt

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Re: Re: Crazy B*tch.....

Originally posted by Wyldfire
Listen closely...

When a man has done his job as a man and satisfied the woman's need for intimacy she will naturally pull away.
Could you elaborate a little please perhaps with some examples of the actions of a satisfied woman?

In what way do they pull away?

Emotionally?Physically?
 

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Re: Re: Re: Crazy B*tch.....

Originally posted by Ted,JustAdmitIt
Could you elaborate a little please perhaps with some examples of the actions of a satisfied woman?

In what way do they pull away?

Emotionally?Physically?
They just don't need as much of your attention and don't need to spend as much time with you. They get the urge to take a little time for themself because they don't need the intimacy. Give them space and do your own thing and then they will want to be closer to you again quicker.
 

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this girl is selfish maybe even an AW sounds like it. My GF is an AW if you are ready to put up with the most BS in the world then back off of her try not to initiate anything and be a d*ck to her then you will get her. But remember if you want to be involved with fvcked up **** then you can deal with it and go in a huge emotional roller coaster then pursue her. These girls disguise their feelings they act fake. Im sure not the happiest guy in the world right now atleast with my relationship Im always looking for someone else cause AWs deserve to be left alone most of the time.
 
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