"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Crash'n & Burning Sucks

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Well guys,
I just had to release some frustration. It just recently ended with a girl that I knew for 7 months. I have the DJ mentality internally & externally, so I know I'll be fine and it would be a problem to move on after some time. I even hooked up with a different girl on New Years. It still sucks though when it was a girl that you really did like. I'll keep it short so I don't bore everyone, but I just had to get it off my chest!!

-ONWARD and UPWARD!

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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top dog, what happened exactly with your chcik?
 
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THERE'S NO SUCH THING AS CRASHING AND BURNING.

There are 2 possible rejection scenarios.

Case 1.

She rejects you politely or gives you an excuse. You feel good anyway because you made a great approach.

Case 2.

She insults you or rejects you rudely. Most people think that this makes YOU look stupid. Actually, the opposite is true. You were just talking to her, she looks bad for acting like such an *******. If you get out of the mentality that you failed and are crashing and burning, then you can laugh about it and still pull a good time out of the situation.
 
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