"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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KingPinp

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So I am sitting in the restroom on the ****ter right now with my mac book air. There is a hot Russian chick in my bed. I am a little perplexed as to my predicament. I am about to get flamed out by all you people for being an AFC and a ***** and all that other ****, but its really not that simple. Anyway, she came over tonight to sleep over. she is in my bed in her panties and one of my shirts. She is alright with me running my hand all over her body but when i try to **** her i get rejected. It might just be that she is sleepy. I guess she had a rough coke filled night prior to tonight.

I did the freeze out, she doesnt respond, she just goes to sleep.

I dont want to be some perv and feel her up while she is sleeping, anyway, on my last run i got as far as running my hands over her vag till she started making sleepy noises so i just got up and came over here to take a **** and type up this angry frustrated post.


AAAAAAAAAAAAA:cuss: :cuss:

I need some mota
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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j0n024

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IF this was me , since I am in a sorta the same prediciment I would tell her that IF she is going to sleep at my place then she should know that I am going (Keyword) to fvck her, otherwise she can just walk right out the door and go back to wherever she sleeps because a girl that just comes in and eats your food and sleeps in your bed for free is a free loader and you should set her straight.

Either next time or in the morning just go at it till she says NO, I've seen that people dont go all the way because they THINK they are being stopped. I say either right now or when you guys wake up in the morning pick her up and start to kiss her and just run your hands all over her and escalate till she either says no or you are done fvcking her.....either way if a chick is on your bed and your doing nothing then what is she doing there?
 

Tex

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I've dealt with this kind of girl before and all I can say is I never spoke to her again. She seemed to be trying to use my hospitality as an emotional kleenex between her ever growing list of boyfriends. Out of curiosity did you invite her or did she invite herself? What I did was the next time she invited herself over I told her no and explained that I felt like she was using me. Funny thing is that we work together and she questioned me about it in public and unfortunately for her I felt compelled to set her straight by explaining that I wasn't one of her trashy boyfriends and that my time and hospitality were earned not given. Needless to say she said nothing for a few months. On the plus side my cred at work has risen since I blew off the office skank.
 

WC2

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If she's not taking the first move, push it a little more. Most women won't allow the first attempt just because they want to have some sense of decency (they convince themselves this way, they aren't a slut), so it's up to you to push it a bit. If she's still not letting anything happen, then shes out the door the next day.

It doesn't sound like this girl is relationship material so theres no reason to let her string you around like an emotional tampon. Even if she was relationship material, this day in age if a woman is sleeping in your bed, it's safe to say that she should be there for some kind of intimate interaction.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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