"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crappy First Impression...next?

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HEy who's ever a real man on this I could use a good 'ol pointer.
ANY TIP, ADVICE, POINTER WOULD BE GREAT THANKS FELLAS:rolleyes:
Short story short:
1.There's this girl in my class I have a small crush on, she sits in the back usually alone.

2.I know she kind of likes my in class buddy who sits next to me in class, they often say "hey" to eachother, this guy also has a girlfriend.

3.I tried talking to her once, I made a comment about her shoes, claiming she stole them from my grama but I got nervous and then asked some stupid question and left...so basically a crappy first impression.

4. Im now 100% confident and I don't care what happens so I'm determined to talk to her once more.

5. the fact that she kind of likes my buddy puts me in a this semi jealous mode because I know I have WAY more to offer.

6. So should I go and sit with this chick one day and class, start chatting her up about how she should give her shoes back to my grama and see where it goes?
Advice from a real guy would definitely be appeciated.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Hey. I'm a real guy.

I think you're over-analyzing the situation. It was just a brief conversation...and although you think it's devastating, I'm sure the girl forgot about it within about 30 seconds.

But no more grandma jokes. Let's not become the "grandma joke guy".

And why will you talk to her just "once more"? We're just talking about conversations, not dates. Talk to her every damn day if it'll make you more comfortable. Invade her personal space.
 
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YEAH thank god you just said that. Ive never ever been an over analyzer, why the hell should I start now
 
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alkaline hero said:
HEy who's ever a real man on this I could use a good 'ol pointer.
ANY TIP, ADVICE, POINTER WOULD BE GREAT THANKS FELLAS:rolleyes:
Short story short:
1.There's this girl in my class I have a small crush on, she sits in the back usually alone.

2.I know she kind of likes my in class buddy who sits next to me in class, they often say "hey" to eachother, this guy also has a girlfriend.
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so you have a crush on a girl in ur class, who has a crush on your buddy who has a gf?
what class are you in ? Special needs class?

5. the fact that she kind of likes my buddy puts me in a this semi jealous mode because I know I have WAY more to offer.
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hmmm.....
getting jelous isnt good self control
 
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