"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Crap-py night

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So i get this chick were making out ~ here n there ~ boob sucking ~ groping the works ~ for around a few hours on her couch in front of ppl under covers so i couldn't have sex with her just yet, i had a erection through out most of it. So i get her into her room finally after a few hours, and shes laying naked next to me and i can't get a hard on at all!? i tried masturbating everything, i got totally embarrassed, and the girl started putting her cloths back on>:mad: . This never happened to me before. I read up some on it, and i have no trouble getting a hard most of the time, me making out with a girl gets my lil guy excited like crazy. But for some reason i couldn't get it that night. I didn't drink or smoke, and i didn't masturbate for awhile either. I was crushed..... I tried visualizing, calming down, doing some more foreplay, but i was like trembling and my sh1t was just not getting hard. Get this i wake up in the morning with a hard that wouldn't let me piss for like 20 minutes hahhaha. Any of you guys got any tips or reasons why this happened and how to avoid it in the future?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Most of my friends when they can't get a hard on before or during sex is because they drank alcohol, or it's because they're cheating on their girlfriends. Their mind wanders off and they feel guilty and instant boner kill.
 
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Why didn't you have her suck your d!ck before you started to fvck her? That always works for me. Sometimes I'll get "whiskey d!ck" but, I'll just have my GF give me some head then, I am ready to fvck....
 
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u should of walked into the toilet and had a 1on1 chat with your little buddy and told him to cop the **** on and wake up...

Never had it happen to me though :D
 
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did you get a bit anxoius before sex thinking you might not be as good as you think or osmethign like that

did you boner go up and down during the long long make out period?

sometimes when my one goes up and down repeatidly, there gets to a point where it won't go up anymore
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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its like it was all good until i went into her room. Something to do with her environment or something. Pingpongz i was thinking about doing that, but she would of just put her clothes back on and my chance i think would be ruined. I was a bit too anxious, her impatience made me worry more then i should of. But ya lordson everytime the making out would stop my boner would go away then kick back up if it started again.
 
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I woulda blamed it on her... "well damn it was just fine for the 4 hours you WOULDN'T let me stick it in you..."

What a *****... You have no reason to be embarrassed, she called wolf, and the wolf got tired of waiting.
 
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