"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Coworker giving mix signals

bruceartest24

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This girl I am into is sometimes very friendly, nice or flirty and then other times like today we are in a conference room and she does not speak to me at all and talks to her other female friends. Not sure what her deal is any advice? Should I just ask her out? We were sitting next to each other and did not talk but when I would check her out she would play with her hair...any help is appreciated thanks!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheManOfSteel

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I would say go for it if you DID NOT work long hours together and it's somebody who is within the company but maybe not at your location. The fact that you see them all the time is not good if/when it goes south. I've been there. My ex ended up switching locations when it went south so it wasn't too bad, but it was awkward at company meetings, etc...
 

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bruceartest24 said:
We were sitting next to each other and did not talk but when I would check her out she would play with her hair...any help is appreciated thanks!
dont just think that if she touches her hair its an absolute IOI. you should game her a little bit first to see how high her interest levels are. other wise be very careful with dipping your pen in the company ink. if she's 50/50 and you find yourself chasing, stay way. if she's a solid Go, then by all means tear it up. but keep in mind of the fall out if it all goes bad. since it sounds like your inexperienced i would stay away.
 

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Don't sh*t where you eat. Stop overanalyzing. Make a damn move. That's my ruling.

Case closed.
 
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