"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Cousions Marriage dilema

Crissco

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I had another thread similar to this. My question was never answered.

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=168922

-My choice to help them, I choose to understand and feel there pain. In turn I want to help them. Especially my cuz F. Im going to cut to the chase. I want to make him feel important again, like someone does love him. He lost his father at age 7 and mother at age 19. Moved from the ghetto and lived with me for 8 years, which im sure didn't help much since I was handed everything and he had to work for it, so he probably has some jealousy towards me for that. He comes over my house for dinner, without even thinking he fixes the light switch for me. Hes a very good person at heart, but I feel like he needs a father in his life.
-His wife makes more them him and about 8 months ago he had a daughter. Which means he double protective of both of them. Hes scared of me, which he told me first hand 3-4 years ago. I'm not going to lie, I am attracted to his wife(known her for over 10 years) but I would NEVER pursue it because me and my cousins relationship together is to important to me. The wife is 34-35 and im sure like most woman that age there looking for a bit more excitement. I don't know how to help me. Maybe bringing a younger girl around them to show F hes "still got it" Im reading the 48 laws of power and the art of seduction, its pretty funny because I can pin him to a tee even more then I was able to before hand. Looking for some guidance.

Thank You

Crissco
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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How's your own life? Worry about that. You just didn't get the advice you wanted to hear.
 

Crissco

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Warrior74 said:
How's your own life? Worry about that. You just didn't get the advice you wanted to hear.
Yea I know that brotha. I still feel like I gotta help them out though. Thank You
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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