"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Cousin recently talked to me about his RSD bootcamp...

rocksoff

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I was talkin to my cousin and the subject came up of an RSD bootcamp he took a little while back...i just recently looked into RSD after hearing his story and see that it's a pretty big site probably making a good amount of money for whoever runs it.......anyways he and a groupp of other dudes ended up goin to a club with their trainer and he says that he was talkin to a pretty fine chick who was also very ****in drunk.....supposedly the girl told him that her and 6 other girls were paid to go to the club and flirt/socialize w/ the dudes exlusively and a few of them were paid even more to actually **** the dudes......lol
the site looks pretty good but i see that theyre really really tryin to push product and sell bootcamp and whateva.........dudes that are going to these camps are prolly gettin hustled hard
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Scion

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this is the truth with the pick-up community. It's all a marketing scheme to make money, hustlers pushing their "products" and "systems" to desperate guys with more money than brains. I'd personally never go to one of those bootcamps, besides the fact that they cost thousands of dollars.
 

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How can these pickup guys make any money when they pay girls to talk to guys and lay guys? What's your point anyway?!?
 

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they make money because they pay the girls a lot less than the guys are paying them. These bootcamps cost what, $2000 for each person? It's nothing to go and pay a few girls a couple hundred dollars to flirt with these guys and make it look like the bootcamp made a huge difference. I think his point was that it's a scam and the guys going on these things are getting hustled.
 

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If you read actual FR's based upon these bootcamps, you'll notice that the guys going on bootcamps get blown out a lot, make massive errors and rarely get laid during the bootcamp.

Also, figure in the cost for transportation, hotel, cover for high end clubs, meals, misc. expenses, and the profit is modest. I would say that a workshop leader is paying at least $1,000 out of his pocket per weekend just for expenses. And there's often more than one instructor.

They're probably making money, but I doubt they're making much more than a low level manager at a retail store after expenses are factored in.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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groups of them swarming chicks all doin the same thing in vegas for $1500
if it was filmed would probably make a funny ass movie
they probably already got the contract

heres a description of a 450$ cd/dvd set on the site:

The Jeffy Show
ADVANCED DATING STRATEGIES FOR AN ABSURD UNIVERSE
Jeffy bombards you with non-stop seduction “magic” steaming out of his “secret” vault of success.

Prepare yourself for a ride of absolute absurdity as you travel deep inside the mind of this “mad scientist” of seduction… exploring the most unbelievable (and most sexually abundant) reality you’ve ever even fathomed.

*Excellent choice for experienced users looking for that razor-sharp, cunning edge of “bad-ass” currently missing from your game.
 

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I don't think it's completely dishonest for them to pay girls to flirt with the bootcamp attendees. Makes sure there are targets for them to practice on, and maybe gives a few of them some badly needed confidence. Paying them to sleep with them is another matter entirely.

I think it's kind of funny to think about guys practicing indifference on girls who know they are there to practice pickup.
 

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I've watched rsd and it doesn't sound like they are what your claiming to be. I find nothing wrong with with their doing cuz I see it as a placebo thing for the bootcamp. The people who attend bootcamp gain that confidence an that's all the really need from bootcamp.
 
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