"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Jair213

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Damn bros its a sad day today. He posted on Facebook

''It's being a long day today, I've worked 14 hours and im tired
Hungry and stressed out, but i need to make this money
To go see my girl, it will be all be worth it when I'm with her''

He's in a long distance relationship he lives here in California
And the gf is in texas. Damn reading that crrapp made me cringe. :/
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Yikes.

But, on the serious note. It's interesting to see how much we view other people after acquiring such knowledge of women and gaining everything in self-development. Sometimes I can't believe what some of my guy friends do.
 

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HyperAnalyze said:
Yikes.

But, on the serious note. It's interesting to see how much we view other people after acquiring such knowledge of women and gaining everything in self-development. Sometimes I can't believe what some of my guy friends do.
Bro ever since I came here to sosuave learning all this dj knowledge it open my eyes.. I feel so bad for my beta friends worshipping bishes on fb etc. I feel so blessed that I found this site. Lol

It's Damn ridiculous bros.. and its getting worse as time passes..
 

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Haha, yeah sometimes I really sit and think about where I am in life and really appreciate sosuave, the community and everything that has led me up to this point. I think most people should do the same.

It's really scary to think about the difference between someone with this knowledge versus someone who knows nothing about pick-up.
 

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HyperAnalyze said:
Haha, yeah sometimes I really sit and think about where I am in life and really appreciate sosuave, the community and everything that has led me up to this point. I think most people should do the same.

It's really scary to think about the difference between someone with this knowledge versus someone who knows nothing about pick-up.
And the saddest thing is that I've.tried getting my friends who got screwed over for being chumps AFC to read the pook bible and read posts here and they still don't listen they all think its all bulllllshiiittt most of them said that all this stuuff is for guys that wanna be players or pimps etc ... I tried explaining but they rather be AFC's.. smh
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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