"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Couple of questions

PeterCrouch

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I'm half asleep and have been asked these two questions by 2 different girls randomly on myspace. Both hot, both girls im playing the truth game with.

1) What's your type of girl? (By a girl with a boyfriend)
2) Whats your favourite item of clothing and why?

Cheers for any decent answers you could supply me with that I can put my own little twist on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Thomas94305

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2) Dunno...

1) My personal answer is.. "She has to be into something besides dinner dates, or movie dates. I hate sitting around, I want to have some fun."

This is an accidental, honest answer that's turned into some very good game. I've experienced that many women love nothing more than to eat or do a movie for a date.. experienced it enough that I'm qualifying on it. When I say it, almost always, the woman gets defensive.. pointing out what she likes besides movies and dinners, or she'll try to defend movies and dinners because "she just wants to relax". Either way, often her tone of voice is defensive, and she's trying to look good to me, instead of boring.

I like this question because it's fair, I've totally dismissed the looks thing, and I'm so serious about this one, that I have a strong frame. I really don't care to talk with her if all she wants is to go to dinners.
 

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PeterCrouch said:
I'm half asleep and have been asked these two questions by 2 different girls randomly on myspace. Both hot, both girls im playing the truth game with.

1) What's your type of girl? (By a girl with a boyfriend)
2) Whats your favourite item of clothing and why?

Cheers for any decent answers you could supply me with that I can put my own little twist on.

1) Submissive chicks with self esteem. The ones that don't try to wear the pants in a realtionships.
2) Jeans. You can wear the right ones almost anywhere.
 
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