"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Couple of problems

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Don Juan
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Progress halted by obstacles(please help)

Hey guys...I really need advice on these situations since they coincide with each other (this could also help me transition into becoming a dj,but if I only knew how to overcome them)

Well I feel like i've been losing my friends for the past several months now, I personally would consider myself a very loyal and sincere person but I feel like I value my friends more than they value me. I just feel like the "guy thats just there" in the group.I feel overlooked sometimes; my friends sometimes my best friends will have get-togethers or birthday parties, and im not even offered an invitation to come.and honestly it hurts.

Also im in quite a predicament right now,i've been stuck in my house for most of the summer(also to be noted I can't really go freely because I don't have a car/don't even have my permit yet because of a family situation). My mother is very protective of me(I know some will say that she is only looking out for my best interests)but it just burns me up inside that I can't even have some freedom and grow as a person. This might hinder my realationship with my friends.

If anybodys been in this situation please lend some advice;it would be greatly appreciated. This year will be my senior yr. and I want it to be memorable.
 
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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