"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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County night is f*cking awesome

ShizamDaMan

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I was taken out tonight by one of my female friends to a bar that was having a country night for her birthday. Initially I was like "Ugh, country music. This is going to suck." This couldn't be farther than the truth.

Let me explain something to you: country night is probably the greatest single bar theme in all of mankind. It emphasizes the following:

-Short skirts
-Cleaveage revealing tops
-Cowboy boots (hey, I like 'em)
-Extreme intoxication
-A friendly, "southern" attitude
-Average meat-head guys who have little to no game


Also, for some reason, 90% of the girls were HOT. The average level of attractiveness was 7.5-8/10. This could have been a fluke, but at least tonight it was crawling with hotties. The dress code for guys is really relaxed too. I wore some dumb button down plaid shirt over top a t-shirt, jeans, and sneakers and I was probably overdressed.

The best thing about country night is that dancing probably takes the least skill of any genre of music. I seriously grabbed my belt, put one foot infront of the other to the beat of the music, and I was a f*cking country dancer. Then I'd grab the girls I was with and just kinda rock back and forth, spin them every now and then, and do the occasional dip. I was a country dancing hero after that.

One more thing, I highly reccomend country night if you look the least bit foriegn. I'm half middle eastern, half south american, and nearly every girl was giving me smiles, seductive stares, and the occasional "come hither" look. I guess compared to all the country guys, foriegners are rare.

I'm incredibly indie/rock, but damn I enjoyed country night. Check it out sometime!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Bad_Lil'Pixie

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We, too, recently experienced the Country/Western "scene" for the first time. I am with you, it was a blast. The club we attended offered a rodeo bull ride. I had opted for the denim skirt rather then pants so I couldn't participate, but one day I will!

We found it a very relaxed, fun place and was a nice break from our occassional jazz club visit. Many beautiful women and men.

Did you over hear any of the "lines" people used? The few I heard were very upfront and direct. A man approached me, took my arm and said, "Come on 'city', let's get out of here." See, no beating around the bush. A woman wanted to wear my husbands stetson. After he denied her I realized that she wanted to ride him while wearing his stetson. Hey, she got a A for creativity.

You can't say you have lived until you've tried it all and this is something to try!
 

spider_007

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I got a whole collection of Toby Keith songs, NOW HE IS AN ALFA MALE.

in local clubs they actually play a country song to mark the midnight hour.
 
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