Countering body language tactics

[ubercat]

Noticed a new contractor at work when we were talking to boss was getting into his personal space and slanting her body towards him so I was excluded from the conversation.

And couple of years ago I was talking to a female mgr and this other chick came over touched her on the arm, cut in with her own conversation and did the same body slant thing to freeze me out.

Nasty tactic that seems to be common. Anybody got any ideas to counter this.

These were work examples but I'm sure the same tactics will be used in social circle game to kok block.

 

[ubercat]

And guys - please don't give me replies along the lines of 'if you were properly Alpha nobody would dare to.....'

Reality is I have a beta herd job that pays six figures and you have to keep the managers happy - they like that 'would you fries with that sir' attitude so anything too confrontational isn't going to fly. And the majority of guys are wage slaves so lets stay on point.

 

[loco]

And guys - please don't give me replies along the lines of 'if you were properly Alpha nobody would dare to.....'

Reality is I have a beta herd job that pays six figures and you have to keep the managers happy - they like that 'would you fries with that sir' attitude so anything too confrontational isn't going to fly. And the majority of guys are wage slaves so lets stay on point.

What you want to do is if you are facing your target,you take a subtle 45 degree step in the direction of the intruder(do this casually like if you were uncomfortable in your stance and had to reposition to alleviate your discomfort) this will in turn show the intruder you are not finished and will not be interrupted all while looking professional and make the intruder feel like they are the one being koked.

 

[ubercat]

Thanks loco
I like it. So yr basically stepping into the intruder's space. Mite need to close up a bit when talking to people too. If u space for a rat one will appear :-(