"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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counter offer??

danieljsalas

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Hey guys, i post last week about a girl i met. she cancelled me the date we had for sunday, an offer for today saturday. I sent her a message today and she said she had other plans for today (what a crap). asking me if i COuld go out tomorrow at 7. Dont know wether to say yes or not.

she looked interested at the beggining but now i am in doubt. i am leaning towards saying No i cant tomorrow...

what do you guys say

she is offering back for tomorrow, so?

thanks
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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crossboss

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I don't know for sure...

but if it were me...I'd go out. I've hung out with people in the past that have canceled. But, if she does it again - forget about her!
 

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I would but I'd let her know that I'm not happy and its her last chance. At least you didn't say yes straight away.
 
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