"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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counter offer??

danieljsalas

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Hey guys, i post last week about a girl i met. she cancelled me the date we had for sunday, an offer for today saturday. I sent her a message today and she said she had other plans for today (what a crap). asking me if i COuld go out tomorrow at 7. Dont know wether to say yes or not.

she looked interested at the beggining but now i am in doubt. i am leaning towards saying No i cant tomorrow...

what do you guys say

she is offering back for tomorrow, so?

thanks
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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crossboss

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I don't know for sure...

but if it were me...I'd go out. I've hung out with people in the past that have canceled. But, if she does it again - forget about her!
 

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I would but I'd let her know that I'm not happy and its her last chance. At least you didn't say yes straight away.
 
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