"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Counter Boyfriend Destroying

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Ok i've been dating my GF for about 2 months. My GF told me though there a guy in her classes who has been telling her "ohhh.. you deserve better" then leaned in to her and said "oh I love you and I was going to tell that to my girlfriend but, I wanted to tell you". I then told my GF I was going to talk to him but she insisted not to. So how do i counter the BF destroying he is trying to do despite him having a girlfriend too also his girlfriend cheats on him a lot. I'm not sure if physically confronting him would seem insecure to my GF though so any advice would help?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What? Don't confront him. Poor chump is suffering enough. If you ever come across him, just smile and show that you're the alpha male. Showing emotion, is a sign of weakness.

Don't worry, your broad will never be attracted to this guy.
 
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Think of it this way. Your the wolf. He's the little puppy nipping at your heels. Beating up the puppy will make all the girl wolves think your a jerk. The true alpha wolf would just be chill and ignore the guy. Sweet metaphor aside, your girl might be testing to see how jealous you are. Act like it doesn't bother you, because if she leaves you got plenty of choices.
 
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**** test. Wouldn't surprise me if you lost your GF tho. Depends on what her tone was.
She likes the attention shes getting, she might be looking at other prospects. Step it up.
I Can easily see that you need to work on yourself, just by looking at your post.
 
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NorwegianDJ said:
**** test. Wouldn't surprise me if you lost your GF tho. Depends on what her tone was.
She likes the attention shes getting, she might be looking at other prospects. Step it up.
I Can easily see that you need to work on yourself, just by looking at your post.
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Your 15? I joined this site when I was 15. Insightful post.

Unfortunately you already messed up OP. The conflict isnt between you and the other guy; it was between you and your gf. She told you about this guy and got plenty of information from your reaction.

You should of acted uninterested when she brought it up. Laughed when she tells you what he said as if its the most ridiculous thing you have ever heard. And then moved the conversation to something else. After doing this it would be a good idea to show her some loving affection since she might be a little upset and concerned that you didnt get jealous.

Learn from your mistakes.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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