"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Mad Ghost

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So remember that Lithuianian chick I number closed at my gym? What do you know, suprise surprise, SHE FLAKES...........:rockon:

Long story short, we texted and shyt, arranged for her to come to a bar lounge near me, she accepts pretty much enthusiastic with a reply "Ok....where and what time lol.."

Give her the time and place - she then texts this a few minutes later (25 minutes) :

"I might have to change my mind tonight, I can't be walking these streets so late, maybe we can hang out some other time babe ....sorry ..x"

She wasn't driving and her cousins car she drives wasn't there, okay whatever

HERES WHERE THE TWIST COMES INTO PLAY

See I wasn't bothered about that, because I had already lined up another girl of Ukranian heritage off Plenty of Fish. (Trying out this plate theory) right. So I give her a call and she gives me the details of her address.

I get there, about an hour 45 minutes later than wehn I called her. She comes outside, asks me "Why are you so young" she is 28-years-old. Witht his, she seems unsure about something, so I ask her if she is just going to stand outside her house talking

She says "Why should I let you in my house" I respond with some hospitality line and how my russian and ukrainian friends would let me in for a drink etc etc, then she said okay okayyy, so then I said "After you"........

She then looks at me and then asks more questions (about my age), then has this distastful look on her face, then comes out with "I'm going back to bed ...." walks in, doesnt even say goodbye and locks the door leaving me outside bedazzeled, I think I was outside her door for atleast 1 minute thinking what the fvck just happend? :eek:

WHILST THIS IS GOING DOWN......:

I get bombareded with text messages one after the other from the Lithuanian chick.......

"Hey whats wrong"..

"Sorry for being so straight forward, but what do you want sex, lol?"

"I like you're voice btw, I couldnt really hear it at gym"

"Sorry I must of p!ssed you off, I just wanted to tell U, I'm not looking for fun, so I gave you my numba but dnt want U to expect anything with me. Chill yea? "

WHAT THE **** WAS THAT!!!

I didn't even respond to any of them, the only text I responded to was the Flake text with "Ok kool, some other time :p ".......

Guys seriously, how can you beat FLAKES? I've come so close to getting poon, but have failed to pull the trigger, my newest problem is actually gpulling the trigger, not the rejection phase.

OPERATION BARBOROSSA FAILED
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You should've told the one who said "why do you look so young?" Good genes. Wy do you look so old and walked away. Put her @ss in check.
 

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It's rough in the beginning. You will get many flakes and miss a lot of opportunities due to lack of experience. Keep going at it and learn from what you did right. After a while you will develop your own style and will be experienced enough to pick the quality ones better and overcome their objections.

I kept track of my successes and failures in the beginning, but after a while you lose track and start to enjoy the successes that come your way. The daily journeys of life is always interesting and fun.
 

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SUCKS dude!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :cry:

Anyway, I still have this Lituianian chick interested, but the 28 year-old Ukranian chick was HOT!!!!!!! Near enough a solid 9. Theres like this big UNIVERSAL FORCEFIELD OF ****BLOCK - which makes me cynical.

A whole range of problems fvcked that all up I believe:
#1 - She was 28 years old
#2 - shes from plenty of fish lol
#3 - It was late, near enough midnight, lack of planning
#4 - I should've done the OPPOSITE, and re-arranged a time and date, but I gathered the Lithuianian girl might FLAKE, thus why you spin more plates
#5 - Gave off a needy vibe, too much persuasion - COMES OFF AS NEEDY
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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a relationship is a power struggle, your problem was you were at her place.... why didn't you take her out somewhere for drinks first? and end up at her place, ur skippin steps...
 
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