Couldn't Rise to the Occassion

[The Bartender]

Well as the title says...it just didnt want to work. Here's the scenario:

HB8(body) HB6.5(face)...Never was really attracted to her
She tells me she wants me and would like to come over after the party I was at. Eventually I said she could. She came over about 5am, we got naked, and ...nothing.

Here's my possible explanations:
Me not being attracted to her
Allergies were horrible today (about 40 sneezes)
I'm taking Benadryl for allergies (just read it can cause ED) stopping this crap
It was late and after a night of some drinking 5-6am. More than 3 drinks kills the Testosterone levels
I didn't eat enough today
My gym is closed and I havent gotten in there
Herculined my Jeep today (Breathed in chemicals for about 4hrs)

Oh...and her form or "helping" me was to swirl her hand on my taint That had a reverse effect.

Happened to any of you recently? And which factors do you think are playing the biggest role

 

[Ricky]

Don't worry about it, it happens to the best of us. I had the same problem after quite a few drinks. It was torture!

 

[diablo]

Originally posted by The Bartender
It was late and after a night of some drinking 5-6am. More than 3 drinks kills the Testosterone levels

Sorry, I just wanted to clarify this popular urban legend. While chronic consumption of high dosages of alcohol repress sexual function, alcohol consumption can actually increases testosterone levels up to 4 times the normal amount. For details on this study, visit:

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/abuse/l/blacer030117.htm



That being said, I think that the problem is mainly psychological. If I can ask, is this the first time that the problem has come about? If not, then I can see this as being a self-fufilling prophecy - you believe you won't maintain an erection, so you don't. I had the same problem for almost half a year myself, where I could get it up with no problem with girls I'd already slept with (luckily that's a fairly large number, so I never did go without for any length of time) but if I was with someone NEW I constantly had to worry about it... the problem went away on it's own, as soon as I realized that the reason it was coming about was due in part to feeling slightly uncomfortable around them... Anyway, I digress... I'll check back for your response in a little while.

 

[The Bartender]

Re: Re: Couldn't Rise to the Occassion

Originally posted by [T]he ishop



That being said, I think that the problem is mainly psychological. If I can ask, is this the first time that the problem has come about? If not, then I can see this as being a self-fufilling prophecy - you believe you won't maintain an erection, so you don't. I had the same problem for almost half a year myself, where I could get it up with no problem with girls I'd already slept with (luckily that's a fairly large number, so I never did go without for any length of time) but if I was with someone NEW I constantly had to worry about it... the problem went away on it's own, as soon as I realized that the reason it was coming about was due in part to feeling slightly uncomfortable around them... Anyway, I digress... I'll check back for your response in a little while.

Wasnt the first time...happened maybe two other times but I think I was drinking then also. Perhaps its a combonation of psychological and alcohol related. I don't really feel "uncomfortable" but perhaps I worried too much about it? Guess we'll wait and see.

 

[gav]

i had the same fvcking problem last night cuz of alcohol. i hadn't whacked it in 6days, so you'd think i'd be extra horny - nope, the alcohol killed off all the horniness

 

[undesputable]

Re: Re: Couldn't Rise to the Occassion

Originally posted by diablo
Sorry, I just wanted to clarify this popular urban legend. While chronic consumption of high dosages of alcohol repress sexual function, alcohol consumption can actually increases testosterone levels up to 4 times the normal amount. For details on this study, visit:

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/abuse/l/blacer030117.htm

that cannot be true....maybe on ocassions it is, but other than that alcohol will be your worst enemy when the moment of truth comes.....

 

[diablo]

Re: Re: Re: Couldn't Rise to the Occassion

Originally posted by undesputable
that cannot be true....maybe on ocassions it is, but other than that alcohol will be your worst enemy when the moment of truth comes.....

According to the study, it's true on all occasions. It seems as though you're assuming that in increase in testosterone levels will coincide with the ability to maintain an erection. Where is your evidence coming from? I've never heard of anyone taking a testosterone pill to get it up - they use Viagra or something close to it, all of which do not have even a gram of testosterone in their ingredients. Now, it's true that an erection pill coupled with a testosterone gel may benefit men who aren't able to get it up with just the pill alone, but then you're going off into the realm of erectile dysfunction and low testosterone levels... something that the OP would have to have medical tests done to determine whether he has either of the two...

 

[flava]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Couldn't Rise to the Occassion

Originally posted by diablo
According to the study, it's true on all occasions. It seems as though you're assuming that in increase in testosterone levels will coincide with the ability to maintain an erection. Where is your evidence coming from? I've never heard of anyone taking a testosterone pill to get it up - they use Viagra or something close to it, all of which do not have even a gram of testosterone in their ingredients. Now, it's true that an erection pill coupled with a testosterone gel may benefit men who aren't able to get it up with just the pill alone, but then you're going off into the realm of erectile dysfunction and low testosterone levels... something that the OP would have to have medical tests done to determine whether he has either of the two...

a gram of testosterone is alot and yes extra test alone does support you little soldier very well. belive me i know.

 

[gav]

so what's the max you can drink and still get your dyck up?

 

[flava]

exactly 2.76553 ounces...lol come on man everyone diffrent you cant get a definitive answer.

 

[Ice Cold]

Happens from time to time. Usually when tired and uncomfortable.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by The Bartender


Me not being attracted to her
Allergies were horrible today (about 40 sneezes)
I'm taking Benadryl for allergies (just read it can cause ED) stopping this crap
It was late and after a night of some drinking 5-6am. More than 3 drinks kills the Testosterone levels
I didn't eat enough today
My gym is closed and I havent gotten in there
Herculined my Jeep today (Breathed in chemicals for about 4hrs)

Happened to any of you recently? And which factors do you think are playing the biggest role

I guess you already described it yourself: not very attracted to her, you body is tired of that Bandryl and drinking...

So it has two parts:
a) Ask yourself : are you really attracted to her? Or she is cute good looking and you dont mind to get more "points" and fvcking her?
Or might be you are nervous aorund her for some reason... again, ask yourself - are you? Why are you?

b) Allergy by itself might be an obstavle.. if yoiu take that Benadryl, you may feel better, sneeze less, but it doesn't do any good to the body. There are two solutions: a) huge dose of vitamic C (like 6 gram per day) - it relieved my allergy but didnt stop it completely b) mix approx 10 parts of bottled water (not from the tap!) and 1 part of apple cider vingear. Stir it and make sure you this is "aggressive" enough by taste, but mild enough to be able to sip it during the day. Approx after 2 days of this, my hay fever allergy has been gone.

 

[naoi deag se deag]

Re: Re: Couldn't Rise to the Occassion

Originally posted by diablo
Sorry, I just wanted to clarify this popular urban legend. While chronic consumption of high dosages of alcohol repress sexual function, alcohol consumption can actually increases testosterone levels up to 4 times the normal amount. For details on this study, visit:

http://alcoholism.about.com/cs/abuse/l/blacer030117.htm

That's probably true, but there's a major difference between being horny and being aroused. I would imagine an increase in testosterone would make one hornier, but not necessarily more readily aroused. In fact, having suffered from this myself, I would say that alcohol does impair arousal, if not horniness.

I've had some serious impotence issues that drove me nearly nuts. You're right to talk about this on the internet, but never EVER tell your mates about it. I did and spent a weekend close to death by embarrassment while they found every way possible to slip it into conversation. Jerks

 

[penkitten]

want to know what chicks think when this happens?

we think its us, we are to blame, you must not be attracted to us.

we dont wonder if you have this problem alot, we assume its us and beat ourselves up over it and its pitiful.

you might have to explain to her its the alcohol.

 

[al77]

Originally posted by penkitten
want to know what chicks think when this happens?

we think its us, we are to blame, you must not be attracted to us.

we dont wonder if you have this problem alot, we assume its us and beat ourselves up over it and its pitiful.

you might have to explain to her its the alcohol.

Probably true.
But honetsly speakign this types of woman thinking may drive any man nuts:
She thinks duing sex "Is he having a good time?" and usually what she is doing? Just thinking.. and doing noting!
Does it make any sense? If she is worried about him havign a good time, at least try to do _something_, then a guy will at least understand her, that she wants him to have good time.

 

[CLOONEY]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
Happens from time to time. Usually when tired and uncomfortable.

Yeah, same, when I am really really tired and just not in the mood, can happen.

However, when I am drunk, I cant say I have ever experienced it, when I am drunk I have an aboslute rock! Dont know why, and dont really care, not to mention, my staying power goes up incredibly! Makes for some great great sex! Too bad its only when Im drunk! :woo:

 

[insidious]

Antihistamines

Don't underestimate the embarassing, frustrating and killing power of these damn meds!

I was having the worst time getting up for my gf (and this was when I was 29!) - I finally put 2 and 2 together. I had taken some OTC antihistamine for my hay fever, something I normally didn't do. Once I cut that crap out, I was back to normal. :woo:

 

[The Bartender]

Wholly crap i posted this september of last year to see that its been revived .

Anyway...here's what I've done to help and it helps a ton. Kegels: everytime i think about sex i squeeze that sucker as tight as it can go for a few seconds. And I am sure you can imagine that with the amount of times a day you think about sex how strong this muscle can get.

This has led to me having 8th grade hard ons again.