Couldn't have gone better but....

[Elf]

Couldn't have gone better but...
Hi guys

I've met this girl today, i have met her online before but this was the first time we have been together, we started talking about lots of stuff, i always tried some kino which she replied back, kissed, bite her in her ears, played with her hair, i guess overall she got into me, there's only one thing i think i've ****ed in kissing her in the mouth, when we were trying a kiss i touched her nose with mine, which may have been a turnoff for her, but unfortunately it happened, i was kinda nervous also so it wasn't perfect like i wanted to.

When we were leaving, i told her keep in touch with me, and she said smiling, now i'm not gonna say anything, with a i'm kidding in the end.

But there are 3 things she told me before ( ******** for this please ) :

1º She likes her space, having her friends, having her room to breathe and think

2º She doesn't like to show that she's interested even if she is. she just waits and doesn't make a move. This might be wrong but that's the way i am, she said.

3º She asked me if i thought our relationship would be more than a friendship. i told her the truth that i came from a painful experience but that i want to go with the flow, slowly, although i like her a lot.


Can someone give some opinions about this chick (16, i'm 22) , is there a possibility that she wants to play me for a fool or what ?

PS: I don't know if this interests or no, but when i was going to meet her, she was there with 2 friends, and when they saw me they started giggling and they seemed very excited, if u understand what i mean, she introduced me to her friends and then we left.

Thanks

 

[JSH]

1 forum please

 

[blienk]

Originally posted by Elf

Can someone give some opinions about this chick (16, i'm 22) ,

Ugh. Have some self-respect.

 

[CableLight]

Originally posted by Elf


Can someone give some opinions about this chick (16, i'm 22)

Thanks

Okay, Heffner...

My first suggestion would be to date someone a little more in your age range. Picture this: If you were her age (16) and kept the age gap proportional, she'd be 10.

Is it even legal for the two of you to date?

 

[JSH]

dudes for boys, its half your age add seven. So it does not matter. You lot are just jealous that older boys are taking your girls, take their girls. But dude if she is still in school and ur working its a bit strange

 

[TheWanderer]

Whatever floats you twinkie dude.......but its illegal here in america.

 

[CableLight]

Originally posted by JSH
dudes for boys, its half your age add seven. So it does not matter. You lot are just jealous that older boys are taking your girls, take their girls.

Wrong.

 

[Jerky Boi]

Yep, I'm pretty sure it's illegal everywhere. You're 22 dude. Don't worry about some 16 year old girl.

 

[blienk]

Originally posted by JSH
dudes for boys, its half your age add seven. So it does not matter. You lot are just jealous that older boys are taking your girls, take their girls. But dude if she is still in school and ur working its a bit strange

Someone failed math class...

22 / 2 = 11

11 + 7 = 18

Still quite a bit underage, no matter what rule you use.

 

[Eternal]

Suppose it WAS half your age + 7...That would mean he'd have to go after an 18 year old, not a 16.

She's too young for you dude...Find someone more your age. *cough*pedofile*cough*

 

[NRM]

Originally posted by Elf
1º She likes her space, having her friends, having her room to breathe and think

2º She doesn't like to show that she's interested even if she is. she just waits and doesn't make a move. This might be wrong but that's the way i am, she said.

3º She asked me if i thought our relationship would be more than a friendship. i told her the truth that i came from a painful experience but that i want to go with the flow, slowly, although i like her a lot.

Well, I'm going to ignore the age issue since you two both seem okay with it and for all I know, you two could be from some African tribe in the middle of nowhere, where this kind of dating would be legal, and you somehow found internet access.

For the first point, it doesn't matter. Girls can say stuff like that all the time so they don't get seen as slutty or whatever they are afraid of. Forget what she says and see how she acts. If she tells you that again while you're getting close to her and start to feel her up, then that's time to back off. She doesn't like it.

For the second point, you should have said something ****y funny to hit her back. She says, "I don't show if I'm interested even if I am." You should say something along the lines of, "Hey me too, guess it's gonna be harder for you to get to me than you thought." Yeah, I'm thinking pretty gibberish right now, but you get the point. The idea that she says it at all is she is possibly trying to tell you to make a move.

For the third one, BAD MAN, you do not tell her your true feelings. You're a man, you don't have them. And even if you did, you do not share it with a woman. She asks if you're going to be more than friends, you tell her that it depends on how many flowers she's going to send you.

But you two already kissed. She's interested. I don't see what you're scared of. Girls are liars by nature, judge by the actions not the crap they spit out of their mouths.

 

[splinterkb]

My general advice would be grow some balls, and go for an older chick. What are you doing going after someone 6 years younger than you?

 

[Superman X]

Alright dude, I didn't read anything in this post except the age part, and regardless of what the rest said, you should not be pursuing this chick. If you live in the US, she or her parents could press statuatory rape charges against you. With a six year age gap, if she presses charges, you WILL be convicted.

This would be fvcked up, except for why would you want to go for a chick six years younger than you? Go join the priesthood if you want to be a pedophile.

-Dan